Frequently Asked Questions

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1. Which course is best for me?

Conscious Weddings E-Course:

Despite the title, this course is for anyone struggling with relationship anxiety (see definition below) at any stage of their relationship. When I created the course many years ago, my work was more specially focused on the transition of getting married. It has since evolved to include relationship anxiety for anyone dating, engaged, or married. While some of the language is geared toward engaged women and men, 90% of the material applies to relationship anxiety in general. The course is self-directed and you will have lifelong access to the material.

Open Your Heart:

For people in a basically healthy and loving relationship that want to learn the Love Laws and Actions that will help them feel more love and attraction for their partner.

Trust Yourself:

For anyone who struggles with the fear of failure, caring what others think, perfectionism, difficulty making decisions, and self-doubt.

 

2. What is relationship anxiety?

Relationship anxiety can be defined as pervasive doubts about a healthy, loving relationship. These doubts usually begin with a thought like, “Do I love my partner enough?” or “What if I’m not in love or attracted enough?” and spirals from there into anxiety that interferes with your ability to be present in your relationship. It can begin at any time in a relationship and it doesn’t matter if you never had an infatuation stage.

 

3. Do your courses deal with R-OCD and H-OCD?

While my course don’t directly use the terms R-OCD and H-OCD, the Conscious Weddings E-Course does address the root causes of these issues. I work a bit differently from the traditional treatment of ROCD or HOCD. I dig deeper into the roots of the intrusive thoughts and recognize them as a cover-up for deep wells of pain and false beliefs that need attention. They’re like flares that your inner self are sending up as a way to get your attention, but they’re not the truth. Working with the thoughts on the surface level may offer short-term relief but it doesn’t address them at the core, which requires pulling them out by the roots. This is what the course will teach you.

 

4. Are you accepting new counseling clients?

My counseling practice for ongoing clients is currently full. However, I’m currently offering single, 50-minute coaching sessions. To learn more, please contact me using the contact tab above.

The most cost-effective way to receive direct guidance from me is through my 30-day programs: Open Your Heart and Trust Yourself. You can learn more about those programs by clicking below:

Learn more about Open Your Heart: A 30-day program to feel more love and attraction for your partner.

Learn more about Trust Yourself: A 30-day program to help you overcome your fear of failure, caring what others think, perfectionism, difficulty making decisions, and self-doubt.

 

5. Are your courses Christian based?

My courses and programs are not Christian based. However, many people of Christian faith have taken my courses over the years and have benefitted enormously from them.

 

6. Do you have to be religious to take the courses?

My courses are not religiously affiliated. I do talk about connecting to the highest part of your self, but this does require any specific religious or spiritual beliefs.

 

7. What do you consider “red-flag issues” in an intimate relationship?

Addiction: alcohol, drugs, spending, sex

Abuse: emotional, physical, one person is deeply controlling around how the other person spends their time, behaves, etc.

Personality Disorder: shows signs of narcissistic personality disorder (is unwilling to sacrifice themselves for another person; isn’t willing to let go of lifestyle of a single person in terms of time commitments – i.e. doesn’t really want to be married and would rather continue in the free and unrestricted lifestyle of being single); compulsive lying

Irreconcilable differences in core values (having children, child raising practices, religion). Having different religious beliefs is only a red flag if you haven’t been able to come to agreements regarding how you’ll raise your children and other practices that may affect your family life.

Having different interests is NOT a red flag! And having a relationship anxiety is not a red flag.