Conscious Transitions TV

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Pre-Wedding Anxieties
Losing Butterfly Feeling
Losing Sex Drive
Post-Engagement Worries
Worried about BF Proposing
Not Physically Attracted to BF
Anxious First Time Mom
Worried about Life with Newborn
Mother Daughter Conflict
How Did Becoming a Parent Change Your Life

2 comments to Conscious Transitions TV

  • Thank you so much for the ‘Losing Butterfly Feeling’ post. This is exactly what I’ve been going through. It’s led me into a spiral of depression and anxiety and after having separation anxiety attacks the doubts said things like:
    “How do you know you love him? You don’t love him anymore. I don’t feel in love. I just want things back the way they were. Why can’t I feel love for him anymore? Why aren’t I excited anymore, and why don’t I miss him anymore? Am I just comfortable or do I really not love him? How can I be sure that I love him?”
    I told him about these doubts and I need to figure out how I feel (I’m feeling numb because of this depression and fear). He says that I over think things too much (which I do). I have read many articles on your site in attempt to soothe my anxiety. I want to take steps towards real love with my boyfriend but I don’t know what to do. Do you have any advice for me?

    • Anxious too

      Kendra, I’m goin through the same thing and mostly the anxiety has become more real since I became engaged. It is really difficult.. Know that you are not alone. I am holding on and praying the anxiety will subside or that I will atleast not let it control me anymore. Anxiety is tough. Focus on what you know is true. Don’t focus so much on your feelings because then you will obsess over them and analyze tem. Focus on the good and communicate. I know that when my fiance and I talk and go for walks together, I feel really close to him because I feel he was really listening to my heart and caring what I say and feel… I hope that helps. Just remember, no relationship is perfect.

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