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We must also be connected to community and to something bigger than ourselves. - [And So I Write: A Poet’s Journey with Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/and-so-i-write-a-poets-journey-with-relationship-anxiety/) - [Unveiling a Hidden Gem in the Passage of Time](https://conscious-transitions.com/unveiling-a-hidden-gem-in-the-passage-of-time/) - Moving, like all transitions, strips down our illusions of the finiteness of time. When we stop resisting time and learn to embrace it, our hearts open wider. - [Even in the Darkest Night, Light will Always Bloom](https://conscious-transitions.com/even-in-the-darkest-night-light-will-always-bloom/) - We cannot love without holding the fear of loss. We cannot fully live without acknowledging the possibility of death. In holding paradox, we expand. - [One of the Most Important Parts of Romantic Love to Understand](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-of-the-most-important-parts-of-romantic-love-to-understand/) - We struggle in romantic love largely because of the belief that we should find our soulmate. But if understood one key concept, we would struggle less. - [How to Cool Down Internet Inflamed Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-cool-down-internet-inflamed-relationship-anxiety/) - Modern messages about love, sex, and marriage are confusing, and they cause many people to question the validity of their choices. - [After 22 Years of Mothering, This is What I've Learned](https://conscious-transitions.com/after-22-years-of-mothering-this-is-what-ive-learned/) - Nobody received the roadmap for mothering, yet we all long for it. These are the tidbits of wisdom I've learned over nearly 22 years of mothering our two sons. - [Growing Trust is a Key to Healing Anxiety and Worry](https://conscious-transitions.com/growing-trust-is-a-key-to-healing-anxiety-and-worry/) - Underneath anxiety is a lack of safety and broken trust. When we repair trust with ourselves, others, and the spiritual realm, we feel safe and anxiety quiets. - [Snakes without Skin: The Middle School Years](https://conscious-transitions.com/snakes-without-skin-the-middle-school-years/) - The middle school years are a source of pain for many people. What are the common wounds and potential gifts of these awkward and transformative years? - [An Essential Quality for Healthy Relationships](https://conscious-transitions.com/an-essential-quality-for-healthy-relationships/) - The two most common fears in romantic love have their roots in the blueprints we received from caregivers in early life, as well as a spiritual component. - [This is What I Can Tell You About the Mother Wound](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-i-can-tell-you-about-the-mother-wound/) - Most daughters suffer from a mother wound, which continues to affect them into adult life, but there is a pathway for healing. - [This is One of the Hallmarks of a Mother Wound](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-hallmarks-of-a-mother-wound/) - Many adult women suffer from a mother wound, which is a rupture of attunement where a mother is unable to meet her daughter's needs. There is a pathway to heal. - [Here's a New Layer of Relationship Anxiety to Discuss](https://conscious-transitions.com/heres-a-new-layer-of-relationship-anxiety-to-discuss/) - I've spent the last 30 years exploring the many layers of relationship anxiety, and recently a new layer has come into view: the role of idealism. - ["Eternity" Review - Finally Hollywood Tells the Truth about Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/eternity-review-finally-hollywood-tells-the-truth-about-love/) - After decades of telling us lies about romantic love, Hollywood finally tells the truth about real love versus fantasy and infatuation in Eternity. - [Gut Health, Anxiety, and the Holidays Made Simple](https://conscious-transitions.com/gut-health-anxiety-and-the-holidays-made-simple/) - Anxiety is a signal that you need to attend to your body, mind, heart, or spirit. In the realm of the body, the search begins in the gut. - [How Do I Love my Husband? Let me count the ways](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-do-i-love-my-husband-let-me-count-the-ways/) - With many marriages falling apart around is, Daev and I feel incredibly blessed to describe our marriage as a success. This is why. - [Let's Tell the Truth about Doubt in Romantic Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/lets-tell-the-truth-about-doubt-in-romantic-love/) - We think that "doubt means don't". Learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy doubt, especially when it comes to romantic love. - [Attending to Unfinished Business is the Work of a Lifetime](https://conscious-transitions.com/attending-to-unfinished-business-is-the-work-of-a-lifetime/) - I'm thrilled to share this guest post by my husband, psychotherapist Daev Finn, on unfinished business, fractal consciousness, and journeys of the mind. - [This is the Core Work of Breaking Free from Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-core-work-of-breaking-free-from-relationship-anxiety/) - The core work of relationship anxiety (ROCD) and all anxiety is growing self-trust so you can discern your true needs and values; learning to tolerate ambiguity - [Let's Unpack What is "Enough" in Romantic Love?](https://conscious-transitions.com/lets-unpack-what-is-enough-in-romantic-love/) - When we put fear, shame, and relationship anxiety aside, we're left with a valid question: what is enough in romantic love? - [The Times I Find Most Interesting in Therapy](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-times-i-find-most-interesting-in-therapy/) - The most common form of therapy is often referred to as "talk therapy." While words are essential, it's the space between words where healing often happens - [How the Magic of Safe Community Heals Body Shame](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-the-magic-of-safe-community-heals-body-shame/) - From beauty standards for young people to agism, our culture makes it nearly impossible to feel good about the bodies we live in. - [How to Untie the Link Between Relationship Anxiety, Sex Anxiety, and Shame](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-untie-the-link-between-relationship-anxiety-sex-anxiety-and-shame/) - Let's name and unclog the dams that lead women to shut down their natural, vibrant sexuality, which is connected to our creativity and aliveness. - [One of the Keys to Positively Change Your Sex Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-of-the-keys-to-positively-change-your-sex-life/) - I want to share a little-known secret with you, one that you would never surmise if you derived the majority of your sex education from pop culture. - [The Truth about Attraction in a Misguided Culture](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-truth-about-attraction-in-a-misguided-culture/) - Among the many skewed messages that our culture disseminates about romantic love, attraction ranks high on the list. Let's unpack some of the misinformation. - [Sex With Your Ex](https://conscious-transitions.com/sex-with-your-ex/) - [Here We Go Through the Fiasco of the Holidays](https://conscious-transitions.com/here-we-go-through-the-fiasco-of-the-holidays/) - It's no secret that amidst the jingle bells of this season, the holidays are a catastrophe for many people. Yet acknowledging the pain allows for joy. - [This is Kryptonite for Highly Sensitive People](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-kryptonite-for-highly-sensitive-people/) - Sensitive people are attuned to separation, which is our kryptonite and medicine. For separation is the doorway to connection, and connection is why we're here - [How to be Human in this Terrible Beautiful World](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-be-human-in-this-terrible-beautiful-world/) - When we learn into pain and uncertainty, we walk through a doorway that returns us to the goodness and abundance of this terrible, beautiful world. - [Summer: The Season of Celebration](https://conscious-transitions.com/summer-the-season-of-celebration/) - [Opening Our Heart is the Riskiest Thing We Do](https://conscious-transitions.com/opening-our-heart-is-the-riskiest-thing-we-do/) - It is a practice to love, both this world and those closest to us. There is something inside of us that protects the heart from loving fully. - [How to Slow Down Time](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-slow-down-time/) - From an early age, highly sensitive people are aware of the passage of time and devise ways to try to stop it. We can't stop time, but we can slow it down. - [When We Accept This One Truth, Life Gets Easier](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-we-accept-this-one-truth-life-gets-easier/) - When we accept that life is fundamentally a messy, mysterious endeavor that includes imperfection, brokenness, pain, AND beauty and love, things get easier. - [What If I'm REALLY Not Attracted to my Partner?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-im-really-not-attracted-to-my-partner/) - Love is not something that magically happens to us; it's a state of mind we can cultivate. Learn the Love Laws and Loving Actions that grow love and attraction. - [An Open Heart is the Key to Love and Attraction](https://conscious-transitions.com/an-open-heart-is-the-key-to-love-and-attraction/) - When it comes to relationships, the tendency to over-focus on what's wrong or missing doesn't go very well and is one of the fastest ways to close the heart: - [To Nag or Not To Nag](https://conscious-transitions.com/to-nag-or-not-to-nag/) - [How to Hear the Soul in a Noisy World](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-hear-the-soul-in-a-noisy-world/) - In an increasingly loud, fast, and busy world, it takes real effort to the listen to the soul. And yet without the soul, we are lost, anxious, and alone. - [Here are Some Messages Embedded in Autumn Leaves](https://conscious-transitions.com/here-are-some-lessons-embedded-in-autumn-leaves/) - As the trees drop their leaves, I'm aware of the loss of beauty in autumn. But is there also beauty in loss? As I grieve the loss of our cat, this is what I ask - [What Does it Mean to Break Free From Anxiety?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-does-it-mean-to-break-free-from-anxiety/) - Breaking free from anxiety does not mean that you'll never be anxious again. Rather, it means you learn how to respond differently to anxiety when it arises. - [One Powerful Key to Loving the Life You Already Have](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-powerful-key-to-loving-the-life-you-already-have/) - Our culture with its rampant escape fantasies leads us to long for a different life. But what if you could truly love the life you already have? - [This Is What It Means To Break Free From Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-it-means-to-break-free-from-anxiety/) - Breaking free from anxiety does not mean that you'll never be anxious again. Rather, it means you learn how to respond differently to anxiety when it arises. - [How to Survive the News and Why it's Important](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-survive-the-news-and-why-its-important/) - With the onslaught of 24/7 negative news, it's easy to get lost in doomscrolling. But does this benefit our mental health, and our capacity to help the world? - [The Things We Don't Learn About Love, Life, and Parenting](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-things-we-dont-learn-about-love-life-and-parenting/) - Not only do we fail to receive a healthy roadmap for living, but our culture makes things worse with the "shoulds" that are infused into the media. - [This One Simple Thing will Radically Reduce Your Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-one-simple-thing-will-radically-reduce-your-anxiety/) - Phones are designed to steal our time, energy, focus, and wholeness. Reducing phone use is one of the fastest ways to regain our attention and reduce anxiety. - [When the Past and Future Collide in the Present - October 2010 and July 2025](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-the-past-and-future-collide-in-the-present-october-2010-and-july-2025/) - [When the Past and Future Collide in the Present](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-the-past-and-future-collide-in-the-present/) - There are moment in parenting and life when the past and future collide, and we're brought into stark relief with the present moment. - [3 Reasons Why It’s More Important Than Ever to Double-Down On Joy](https://conscious-transitions.com/3-reasons-why-its-more-important-than-ever-to-double-down-on-joy/) - It's easy to fall into apathy and despair when the overwhelm of life takes over. The medicine is not to collapse but to seek joy. - [The Direct Connection Between Shame, Anxiety, and Joy](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-direct-connection-between-shame-anxiety-and-joy/) - There is one stream that runs like an underground source through all anxiety themes, and that’s shame. One way to heal shame is through joy. - [The One Great Medicine for Anxiety That is Rarely Discussed](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-one-great-medicine-for-anxiety-that-is-rarely-discussed/) - It's time to recognize that joy is one of our most powerful medicines. When we reclaim joy, anxiety, depression, apathy, and boredom begin to wilt. - [The Fear of Death is the Denial of Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-death-is-the-denial-of-life/) - Healthy anxiety and the fear of death carry a very important message that, when listened to, helps us to reorient toward the beaty and goodness of this life. - [Sometimes Anxiety Asks For Just This One Thing](https://conscious-transitions.com/sometimes-anxiety-asks-for-just-this-one-thing/) - One of anxiety's deepest medicines is to trust that your being, not your doing, is enough. How do we learn stillness in a world that encourages us to stay busy? - [Does My Friendship Need to End? Heartbreak and Opportunity](https://conscious-transitions.com/does-my-friendship-need-to-end-heartbreak-and-opportunity/) - We talk about breaking up with a partner in our culture, but we give much less attention to breaking up with friends. This is a loss that needs to be grieved. - [Perhaps the Time is Now to Know That You Are Loved](https://conscious-transitions.com/perhaps-the-time-is-now-to-know-that-you-are-loved/) - Repairing self-trust leads to softening perfectionism. With self-trust as our North Star, we're able to bring the gifts of who we are into the world. - [This is One of Our Greatest Protectors Against Shame](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-our-greatest-protectors-against-shame/) - Young people often deny their clear-seeing and form a shame story of brokenness because it's too threatening to see the truth of their painful situation. - [Remembering this Truth will Make Decision-Making Easier](https://conscious-transitions.com/remembering-this-truth-will-make-decision-making-easier/) - Making decisions can be very challenging, especially for people who think deeply and want to get life "right." Here's one quick takeaway that can help. - [This is Our Deepest Fear - and How to Handle it](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-our-deepest-fear-and-how-to-handle-it/) - Everyone has the same core fears, but this fear can wear many hats. Learn what this fear is, how it interferes with our life, and how to move through it. - [This is Our Deepest Fear - and How to Handle it](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-our-deepest-fear-and-how-to-handle-it/) - Everyone has the same core fears, but this fear can wear many hats. Learn what this fear is, how it interferes with our life, and how to move through it. - [7 Essential Truths to Know About Relationships](https://conscious-transitions.com/7-essential-truths-to-know-about-relationships/) - In the absence of healthy role-models, many of us look to Hollywood to teach us about marriage. But he Hollywood version rarely holds up in real life. - [If You're Looking for the Perfect Partner, Good Luck!](https://conscious-transitions.com/if-youre-looking-for-the-perfect-partner-good-luck/) - We expect perfection in every area of our lives, but nowhere more than romantic love. We can search and search for the perfect partner, but we'll never find it. - [One Aspect of Relationship Anxiety I've Rarely Discussed](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-aspect-of-relationship-anxiety-ive-rarely-discussed/) - After twenty-five years of writing and teaching about relationship anxiety/ROCD, there is one essential root cause that I've rarely discussed. - [How OCD Shields the Heart From the Pain of Being Human](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-ocd-shields-the-heart-from-the-pain-of-being-human/) - John Green's Turtles All the Way Down lays bear the mind and heart of the OCD sufferer, who hides in their head as a way to avoid the pain of being human - [Discovering Your Rhythm is One Reliable Pathway to Joy](https://conscious-transitions.com/discovering-your-rhythm-is-one-reliable-pathway-to-joy/) - Discovering your natural rhythm around sleep, conversations, work, and creativity is a pathway to joy, yet for many us the rhythm was stamped out in childhood. - [This is the Real Definition of Love at First Sight](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-real-definition-of-love-at-first-sight/) - We absorb many false slogans in our culture about romantic love, like "doubt means don't", and you'll "just know" when you meet "the One". - [If You're Struggling with Darkness, This is One True Light](https://conscious-transitions.com/if-youre-struggling-with-darkness-this-is-one-true-light/) - Whatever darkness you're currently experiencing, there is a one true light that we must reach for if we're going to traverse this global transition. - [There's a Lot Going On Right Now, and There is Hope](https://conscious-transitions.com/theres-a-lot-going-on-right-now-and-there-is-hope/) - This global transition is effecting everyone's lives. Amidst the theme of "too much" that I'm hearing everywhere,. I'm also hearing, "And good is coming." - [How to Unpack the Beautiful Message Embedded Inside Regret](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-unpack-the-beautiful-message-embedded-inside-regret/) - There is a message embedded inside regret, and when we can harvest the message the heart grows in its capacity to love and embrace the present moment. - [The Medicine for the Fear of Loss is More Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-medicine-for-the-fear-of-loss-is-more-love/) - Henry David Thoreau said, "There is no remedy for love but to love more." Why would love need a remedy? Because embedded in loving deeply is the fear of loss. - [The Most Powerful Choice We Have in a Powerless World](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-most-powerful-choice-we-have-in-a-powerless-world/) - There are many things we cannot control in the world. But two things we can control are the choices we make and our response to circumstances. - [This is One of the Antidotes to Anxiety and Perfectionism](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-antidotes-to-anxiety-and-perfectionism/) - We try to circumvent the discomfort of life with OCD, perfectionism, and addiction, but the more connection we create the more tolerable discomfort becomes. - [This is One of Our Most Potent Pathways to Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-our-most-potent-pathways-to-healing/) - Creativity is one of our most potent pathways to connecting with the goodness and flow of our world, and with each other, especially for highly sensitive people - [This is One of Our Most Potent Pathways to Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-our-most-potent-pathways-to-safety-2/) - [How To Find Freedom From the Ritual Of "Checking"](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-find-freedom-from-the-ritual-of-checking/) - Embedded inside obsessions and compulsions is a call to connect with our soul's poetic language so that we are held through the vulnerability of living. - [This is One Reliable Way to Find Ground in a Shaky World](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-reliable-way-to-find-ground-in-a-shaky-world/) - In our uncertain world, we need reliable tethers and anchors to help us feel grounded, calm, and safe. This is what spiritual practice offers. - [Why Our Daily Practices are More Important than Ever](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-our-daily-practices-are-more-important-than-ever/) - When we discover our personal pathways that help us feel held, loved, safe, and trusting, we can navigate the beauty and harshness of this world with more grace - [Why I Loved - and Didn't Love - Inside-Out 2](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-i-loved-and-didnt-love-inside-out-2/) - Here's my informal film review of Inside-Out 2 through the eyes of a therapist: the good, the brilliant, and the not-so-good. - [How to Channel Existential Anxiety into Art and Community](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-channel-existential-anxiety-into-art-and-community-2/) - [How to Channel Existential Anxiety into Art and Community](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-channel-existential-anxiety-into-art-and-community/) - The fear of loss is at the heart of the experience of the highly sensitive person. In this beautiful essay and poem, Elizabeth channels grief into creativity. - [The Challenge of Ambivalence in an Uncertain World](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-challenge-of-ambivalence-in-an-uncertain-world/) - Highly sensitive people prone to anxiety and OCD often fall into all-or-nothing thinking, which makes it difficult to accept the gray parts of life. - [This is the #1 Reason Why People are Terrified to Turn Inward](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-1-reason-why-people-are-terrified-to-turn-inward/) - The #1 reason why people are terrified to heal is that they're scared of what they'll discover. The familiarity of misery is safer than the risk of discovery. - [Magic Can Happen When You Commit to Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/magic-can-happen-when-you-commit-to-healing/) - There are three main variables that lead to lasting change and deep healing. Sarah, a member of my 9-month course Break Free From Anxiety, speaks to all three. - [Let's Debunk One of Shame's Greatest Lies](https://conscious-transitions.com/lets-debunk-one-of-shames-greatest-lies/) - If there's one message that runs throughout my work on anxiety it's this: You are not broken. Healing this shame belief is the first step to healing anxiety. - [This is One Potent Way to Find Freedom From OCD](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-potent-way-to-find-freedom-from-ocd/) - Highly sensitive people and those with OCD are highly conscientious, sensitive, empathic, and moral. This comes with trying to be perfect, which doesn't exist - [This is One Root Cause of Anxiety and OCD](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-root-cause-of-anxiety-and-ocd/) - One root cause of anxiety and OCD is stagnancy. When we stop moving and creating, we stagnate. And when we stagnate the energy often goes to anxiety or OCD. - [4 Reasons Why Men Don't Go to Therapy](https://conscious-transitions.com/4-reasons-why-men-dont-go-to-therapy/) - There are four primary reasons why women are twice as likely to go therapy as men. The reasons why men avoid therapy are exactly the reasons they need to go. - [These are the Beautiful Things that Take Time to Grow](https://conscious-transitions.com/these-are-the-beautiful-things-that-take-time-to-grow/) - In our ageist and instant-gratification culture, we don't understand that there are some things that can only become beautiful with time. - [3 Beautiful Truths about Marriage that Everyone Should Know](https://conscious-transitions.com/3-beautiful-truths-about-marriage-that-everyone-should-know/) - In her beautiful book The Interestings, Meg Wolitzer wisely shares many truths about friendship, life, being human, and marriage. - [I Danced with Panic and Found Exhilaration](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-danced-with-panic-and-found-exhilaration/) - In this week's Gathering Gold episode, we continue our deep dive into themes from my new audio collection Thresholds, with an exploration of panic attacks. - [This Powerful Relationship Anxiety Hack Can Be Life-Changing](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-powerful-relationship-anxiety-hack-can-be-life-changing/) - We're wired for fear, but in order to live a fully life and love our partners fully, we must be willing to accept this one truth about life. - [This is a Crucial Missing Piece for Most Men](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-a-crucial-missing-piece-for-most-men/) - We hear a lot about how women suffer under patriarchy, but men are suffering under under these systems and paradigms as well. Luckily, there is a cure. - [Relationship Anxiety: What if We Have Different Interests?](https://conscious-transitions.com/relationship-anxiety-what-if-we-have-different-interests/) - The question of compatibility often arises for people in long-term relationships: do we have to share the same interests to be compatible? - [This Is Both an Offering and Invitation to You](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-both-an-offering-and-invitation-to-you/) - I'm delighted to announce the release of my new audio collection, Thresholds, where I share personal stories and insights on midlife, parenting, panic, & more. - [Two Lifelines of Hope for Relationship Anxiety and Fairness](https://conscious-transitions.com/two-lifelines-of-hope-for-relationship-anxiety-and-fairness/) - I'm overjoyed to I'm overjoyed to share these two beautiful poems on relationship anxiety and a framework of wisdom to help accept the unfairness of life. - [Can I Make It Work With Anyone?](https://conscious-transitions.com/can-i-make-it-work-with-anyone/) - My work is based the premise that doubt does NOT always mean don't. But sometimes it does. Learn to discern the difference between the different kinds of doubt. - [Insomnia: A Call from the Underworld to Wake Up](https://conscious-transitions.com/insomnia-a-call-from-the-underworld-to-wake-up/) - Insomnia, like anxiety, is a messenger communication places in our inner and outer lives that are off-kilter and need attention. - [The One Essential Question that Lives Inside Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-one-essential-question-that-lives-inside-relationship-anxiety/) - At the root of relationship anxiety lives this one essential question. When we can address this question at the root, true healing be - [This is the Best Relationship Advice I Can Give You](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-best-relationship-advice-i-can-give-you/) - The best piece of relationship advice I can give you comes from over 20 years of marriage and working with hundreds of people in long-term relationships. - [A Major Relationship Pitfall that People Don't Discuss](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-major-relationship-pitfall-that-people-dont-discuss/) - In our Hollywood-and-Disney culture, we think that love should be easy. If only we understood the truth we could avoid falling down the rabbit hole of anxiety. - [Is There a Better Match for Me?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-there-a-better-match-for-me/) - [True Mothers are Everywhere. This is One of Mine](https://conscious-transitions.com/true-mothers-are-everywhere-this-is-one-of-mine/) - Many adult daughters carry immense pain and disappointment around their mothers, as well as long-standing wound that effect their other relationships. - [This is What Actually Heals the Mother Wound](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-actually-heals-the-mother-wound/) - Oe of the most potent is to heal in community. This is why I only offer my Healing the Mother Wound: a 40-day course for daughters in a live format. - [Are You Settling?](https://conscious-transitions.com/are-you-settling/) - Alongside questions about chemistry and connection, my clients and course members are plagued by the question, "Am I settling?" What does it mean to settle? - [Healing the Mother Wound Returns us to Belonging](https://conscious-transitions.com/healing-the-mother-wound-returns-us-to-belonging/) - A woman suffering from a mother wound continues to exile herself, contorting to meet other's needs and expectations, until she finds herself and her tribe. - [Examining Hulu's The Bear as A Modern Fairy Tale](https://conscious-transitions.com/examining-hulus-the-bear-as-a-modern-fairy-tale/) - Hulu's The Bear has struck a chord with audiences around the country. A psychotherapist examines this resonance through the lens of fairy tales and psychology. - [One of the Greatest Invitations of Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-of-the-greatest-invitations-of-relationship-anxiety/) - Relationship anxiety, or ROCD, can be debilitating, but it's also a portal into our greatest healing when we shift some basic mindsets around fear and love. - [Life is a Risk. Love is a Risk. Is There a Way to Stay Safe?](https://conscious-transitions.com/life-is-a-risk-love-is-a-risk-is-there-a-way-to-avoid-it/) - Life and love are risks. How tempting it is to keep our worlds small with the false assumption that we can prevent the risk of loss. But risk is how we grow. - [A Beautiful Lifeline for Sexuality Spikes: What if I'm gay/straight? (SO-OCD)](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-beautiful-lifeline-for-sexuality-spikes-what-if-im-gay-straight-so-ocd/) - Intrusive thoughts about one's sexual orientation can be debilitating. As Steve shares, while mainstream approaches don't always "work," freedom is possible. - [Am I Just Convincing Myself That I Love My Partner?](https://conscious-transitions.com/am-i-just-convincing-myself-that-i-love-my-partner/) - A common question I'm asked by people struggling with relationship anxiety is: What if I'm just convincing myself that I love my partner? Here's my response. - [When Self-Trust is Shattered... and How to Retrieve It](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-self-trust-is-shattered-and-how-to-retrieve-it/) - From well-meaning parents, teachers, and religion, we are conditioned from birth to abdicate our innate self-trust. But what is broken can be repaired. - [Why Making Decisions Can Feel Like Life-or-Death](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-making-decisions-can-feel-like-life-or-death/) - Trust is the foundational stone that allows us to make minor and major life decisions with more ease. Without self-trust and trust in others, we are lost. - [Struggling with Boredom? Welcome to Being Human!](https://conscious-transitions.com/struggling-with-boredom-welcome-to-being-human/) - When we try to avoid boredom and reach for substances or phones to fill the emptiness, we miss one of our greatest opportunities for fullness. - [Anxiety Isn't a Sign that There's Something Wrong With You](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-isnt-a-sign-that-theres-something-wrong-with-you/) - Anxiety and fear aren't signs that there's something wrong with you. Rather, they are portals into peace and freedom once you learn the right tools. - [The Top 6 Lies Hollywood Tells Us About Sex](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-top-6-lies-hollywood-tells-us-about-sex/) - The images and messages we receive from the media about sex often lead to a sense of shame and inadequacy since we will never live up to the Hollywood version. - [It is High Time to Reclaim What is Rightfully Yours](https://conscious-transitions.com/it-is-high-time-to-reclaim-what-is-rightfully-yours/) - Among the many things that have been stolen from us as women, our pleasure and desire are perhaps two of the most harmful. - [When Science Goes Against What Your Body Knows, This Can Help](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-science-goes-against-what-your-body-knows-this-can-helpwhen-science-goes-against-your-experience-this-can-help/) - When looking to science, we must be careful not to abdicate our own lived experience. As one member shares, science is fallible and human. - [How to Find Clarity and Light in Times of Darkness](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-find-clarity-and-light-in-times-of-darkness/) - We are approaching the shortest day and longest night of the year. How can we anchor ourselves in time and find communion with the luminous dark? - [There are Powerful Ways to Contribute During Dark Times](https://conscious-transitions.com/there-is-a-powerful-way-to-contribute-during-dark-times/) - When the world feels dark there are many powerful ways the bring light into the world, from committing to our practices to availing ourselves to joy - [Is Medication Helpful or Harmful? Here are my thoughts.](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-medication-helpful-or-harmful-here-are-my-thoughts/) - Is medication helpful or harmful for anxiety? My views on the efficacy of pharmaceutical medication have changed dramatically over the years. - [This is One of Our Most Powerful Tools for Inner Freedom](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-our-most-powerful-tools-for-inner-freedom/) - WhenI notice something that I'd like to correct about someone close to me and I feel the urge to say something, what would happen if I zipped my lip instead? - [Why I Changed My Last Name](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-i-changed-my-last-name/) - Many of you have asked me why I changed my last name. I thought I could slip it under the radar, but my audience is more perceptive than that :). - [Cloud Watching: A Poem for the Community Garden](https://conscious-transitions.com/cloud-watching-a-poem-for-the-community-garden/) - It is with great joy that I share this writing and poem with you from one of our long-term community members, George Lamb. - [The #1 Quality to Look for in a Long-Term Relationship](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-1-quality-to-look-for-in-a-long-term-relationship/) - The #1 quality to look for in a relationship is NOT physical attraction, chemistry, or any of the other qualities that our culture convinces us are important. - [How to Find Hope and Wholeness in our Broken World](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-find-hope-and-wholeness-in-our-broken-world/) - There is a lot of pain in our world, but there is more goodness. When we slow down enough to see the goodness, we find hope. - [It's Time to Heal the Pain that Didn’t Start with You](https://conscious-transitions.com/its-time-to-heal-the-pain-that-didnt-start-with-you/) - Some of your anxiety, shame, intrusive thoughts, and OCD didn't start with you. It's inherited, but doesn't mean we can't change the legacy. - [Expectations, Emotions, and Very Big Days](https://conscious-transitions.com/expectations-emotions-and-very-big-days/) - One of the truths about transitions is that when we grieve on the front end, we open up the space on the actual day and afterwards for love and joy to enter. - [Healing Shame is One of the Keys to Healing Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/healing-shame-is-one-of-the-keys-to-healing-anxiety/) - Shame is the voice that says, "You're broken, bad, and unworthy," and it prevents deep healing. One of the best remedies for healing shame is normalization. - [A Remedy for the Autumn Anxiety that Sensitives Feel](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-remedy-for-the-autumn-anxiety-that-sensitives-feel/) - Highly sensitive people feel the shift of seasons earlier than most. As autumn approaches, here is a calm to soothes the heartache. - [How to Embrace the Grief and Joy in the Passage of Time](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-embrace-the-grief-and-joy-in-the-passage-of-time/) - Highly sensitive people are highly attuned to the passage of time. When we open to the grief, we also open our hearts to receive more joy. - [Finally, Some Wisdom about Love From a Popular TV Series](https://conscious-transitions.com/finally-some-wisdom-about-love-from-a-popular-tv-series/) - While I usually recommend a media diet when you're healing from relationship anxiety, there are some shows that have a positive message about love and marriage. - [How Middle School Years are Often a Root Cause of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-middle-school-years-are-often-a-root-cause-of-anxiety/) - Middle school years are often a time when negative beliefs about ourselves take root. When seeking to heal anxiety, it's important to explore these years. - [The 80% Rule about Relationships Has been Verified!](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-80-rule-about-relationships-has-been-verified/) - When looking for love, we expect perfection, which causes many people to walk away from a solid match that could lead to lifelong love. - [This is What Intrusive Thoughts are Protecting us From](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-intrusive-thoughts-are-protecting-us-from/) - Intrusive thoughts tell us that if we could achieve external perfection we would be lifted above life’s messiness. This is a dangerous lie. - [How I Emerged From a Recent Dark Night With Runes of Light](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-i-emerged-from-a-recent-dark-night-with-runes-of-light/) - When I was plunged into a spiritual descent, a dark night of the soul, in November 2022, this is what kept me afloat and buoyed. - [The Fear of Death is Another Core Element of Anxiety and OCD](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-death-is-another-core-element-of-anxiety-and-ocd/) - If you suffer from anxiety, the fear of death lives at the core. The most powerful action you can take to reduce this fear is ACTION toward what you love. - [What if There is a Place Where True Perfection Exists?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-there-is-a-place-where-true-perfection-exists/) - OCD tries to find completeness, certainty and perfection in the only way it knows how. But there is a better way, a place where true perfection exists. - [Paulina Galiardi: "One Day He'll Move Out" and "Scapegoat"](https://conscious-transitions.com/paulina-galiardi-one-day-hell-move-out-and-scapegoat/) - I am blown away by the creativity that emerges from this community that I decided to start a Community Garden where we can share our expressions with each other - [How an Unexpected Grief Opened Me to a Unexpected Joy](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-an-unexpected-grief-opened-me-to-a-unexpected-joy/) - Shy and uncertain, grief isn't always obvious. But when we drop into our bodies and trust the way, we might open to unexpected grief, which opens us to joy. - [I Held the Dreams Lightly as Hope Dangled Further Away](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-held-the-dreams-lightly-as-hope-dangled-further-away/) - Dreams can offer a light and roadmap through the darker forests of life when we know how to work with them effectively instead of taking them literally. - [The Mother Wound is Healable and I'm Here to Help you Heal](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-mother-wound-is-healable-and-im-here-to-help-you-heal/) - I'm sharing three clips in different formats from our Gathering Gold episode on the Mother Wound that speak to the heart of this very tender and healable wound. - [I Will Help You Find the Courage to Heal the Mother Wound](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-will-help-you-find-the-courage-to-heal-the-mother-wound/) - Healing from a mother wound frees us to reclaim our lives. Yet daughters often feel guilty about even naming this wound because of unspoken loyalty contracts. - [It Seems We Have Forgotten this One Essential Truth about Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/it-seems-we-have-forgotten-this-one-essential-truth-about-love/) - We're told that love should only feel like good. So what happens when fear shows up? We think, "This must mean there's something wrong." - [A Journal Entry that Offers Guidance on How to Grieve](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-journal-entry-that-offers-guidance-on-how-to-grieve/) - We don't talk enough about the heart-wrenching grief of launching a firstborn into the world when there is still another one at home. It's time to talk now. - [Is There Hope if You're Just a Bad Match?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-there-hope-if-youre-just-a-bad-match/) - Most people who follow the mainstream model of love would say that if you're a "bad match" you should walk away. I hold a vastly different view. - [How to Keep Love Alive After the Butterflies Flutter Away](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-keep-love-alive-after-the-butterflies-flutter-away/) - But there are practices that soften fear and grow love so that real attraction and sustainable loving feelings can shimmer up to the surface. - [Grieving Unlived Lives is One Pillar of Inner Freedom](https://conscious-transitions.com/grieving-unlived-lives-is-one-pillar-of-inner-freedom/) - Life is imperfect, and part of the key to accepting this imperfection is to grieve the lives unlived. Yet our culture fails to teach us how to grieve - [Understanding Thoughts is One of the Keys to Breaking Free](https://conscious-transitions.com/understanding-thoughts-is-one-of-the-keys-to-breaking-free/) - A significant amount of anxiety would be reduced and would never manifest to begin with if we were taught about our thoughts early in life. - [4 Extraordinary Relationship Anxiety Stories to Bring You Hope](https://conscious-transitions.com/4-extraordinary-relationship-anxiety-stories-to-bring-you-hope/) - Most people find their way to my work through relationship anxiety, and yet I've never done a podcast episode on this topic or told my story... until now. - [Why This is One of the Most Brilliant Songs of All Time](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-this-is-one-of-the-most-brilliant-songs-of-all-time/) - These brilliant lyrics are a guiding light for how to work with thoughts and feelings, and also a reminder of a source of comfort that is always available. - [The #1 Reason Why People are Scared of Inner Work](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-1-reason-why-people-are-scared-of-inner-work/) - The reason why people avoid signing up for courses that are transformative is they're afraid they'll discover that their intrusive thoughts are true. - [6 Common Micro-Transitions that Highly Sensitive People Struggle With](https://conscious-transitions.com/6-common-micro-transitions-that-highly-sensitive-people-struggle-with/) - Highly sensitive people can struggle with large and smaller transitions. When we meet ourselves with self-compassion for our different rhythm, change occurs. - [How the Superhero of Shame Rescues us From this Life-or-Death Matter](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-the-superhero-of-shame-rescues-us-from-this-life-or-death-matter/) - At the core of obsessions is the question of enough. Do I love my partner enough? Did I wash my hands enough? What you're trying to answer is: Am I enough? - [Why Kissing is One of Our Most Vulnerable Sexual Acts](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-kissing-is-one-of-our-most-vulnerable-sexual-acts/) - The way Hollywood sells it, kissing should happen effortlessly. But the truth is that kissing is vulnerable and carries worlds of expectation and pain - [This is One of the Best Ways to Get Sexually Aroused](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-best-ways-to-get-sexually-aroused/) - In a culture that encourages women to say yes when they mean no, we lose our voice around sex. But voice is safety, and safety is the gateway to arousal. - [Why "Sex" and "Intimacy" are So Much More Than We Think](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-sex-and-intimacy-are-so-much-more-than-we-think/) - [The 3 Top Emotions Trapped Inside Every Intrusive Thought](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-3-top-emotions-trapped-inside-every-intrusive-thought/) - When you unpack the top 3 emotions embedded inside intrusive thoughts, anxiety quiets. As we're a neck-up culture, many people wonder what these emotional are. - [This Might be the Most Important Aspect of Healing from Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-might-be-the-most-important-aspect-of-healing-from-intrusive-thoughts/) - Once you understand how to implement this one essential skill, your entire relationship to intrusive thoughts and panic attacks will change. - [During Dark Times, These are the Lights that can Guide us Through](https://conscious-transitions.com/during-dark-times-these-are-the-lights-that-can-guide-us-through/) - [There is Only One Way Through Fear, and I Had to Find it Last Week](https://conscious-transitions.com/there-is-only-one-way-through-fear-and-i-had-to-find-it-last-week/) - Ever since our son, Everest, earned his private pilot's power plane license a few months ago I've been wanting to fly with him. This is how I did it. - [Wise Women Know About Another Way to Live. Are You Ready to Listen?](https://conscious-transitions.com/wise-women-know-about-another-way-to-live-are-you-ready-to-listen/) - Reflections on my bodily knowing that there must be another way to do life, one that is more balanced than what we’ve grown accustomed to. - [How was Nighttime Anxiety Met When you Were a Child?](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-was-nighttime-anxiety-met-when-you-were-a-child/) - The healing work, as I understand it, includes being able to time travel back to your young self and accompany them in the way that they needed back then. - [One Element of Self Trust Hinges on Letting Go of What Other People Think](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-element-of-self-trust-hinges-on-letting-go-of-what-other-people-think/) - As grief entered our family this week, I changed directions for our podcast. A more personal episode as I navigate self-trust, grief, and the body. - [The One Thing that Remains When the Leaves Fall and the Children Grow Up](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-one-thing-that-remains-when-the-leaves-fall-and-the-children-grow-up/) - [When Things are Groundless, Trust is the Ground Beneath Your Soul](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-things-are-groundless-trust-is-the-ground-beneath-your-soul/) - [It's Time to Quiet Self-Doubt and Step into your True Worth](https://conscious-transitions.com/its-time-to-quiet-self-doubt-and-step-into-your-true-worth/) - [These 10 Micro-transitions can Trigger Anxiety for Highly Sensitive People](https://conscious-transitions.com/these-10-micro-transitions-can-trigger-anxiety-for-highly-sensitive-people/) - [Mary Oliver Says You Do Not Have to be Good... But Do You?](https://conscious-transitions.com/mary-oliver-says-you-do-not-have-to-be-good-but-do-you/) - [The Top 4 Shaming Statements Highly Sensitive People Often Hear](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-top-4-shaming-statements-highly-sensitive-people-often-hear/) - [Why the Time is Now to Commit to Your Inner Work](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-the-time-is-now-to-commit-to-your-inner-work/) - [What If I'm Gay?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-im-gay/) - [Why Highly Sensitive People are More Prone to the Burden and Gift of Shame](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-highly-sensitive-people-are-more-prone-to-the-burden-and-gift-of-shame/) - [Breaking Free from Anxiety Hinges on this One Teachable Skill](https://conscious-transitions.com/breaking-free-from-anxiety-hinges-on-this-one-teachable-skill/) - [This is How we Walked Through the Grief and Joy of Everest Turning 18](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-we-walked-through-the-grief-and-joy-of-everest-turning-18/) - [Our Fast-Paced Culture is Leaving Us Breathless but There is a Remedy](https://conscious-transitions.com/our-fast-paced-culture-is-leaving-us-breathless-but-there-is-a-remedy/) - [3 Ways That High Sensitivity Shows Up (that few people talk about)](https://conscious-transitions.com/3-ways-that-high-sensitivity-shows-up-that-few-people-talk-about/) - [This is One of the Most Healing Experiences We Can Have](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-most-healing-experiences-we-can-have/) - [Is This the Leading Cause of Your Intrusive Pain? I'd Love Your Thoughts!](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-this-the-leading-cause-of-your-intrusive-pain-id-love-your-thoughts/) - [Intrusive Images Caught Me In Their Grip and This is How I Responded](https://conscious-transitions.com/intrusive-images-caught-me-in-their-grip-and-this-is-how-i-responded/) - [Anxiety screams, "Danger!" But it's not what you think.](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-screams-danger-but-its-not-what-you-think/) - Without the daily danger of death on our doorstep, we're being invited to evolve our capacity to live with our full hearts, and anxiety is leading the way. - [The Time is Now to Learn How to Find More Grace Through Uncertainty](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-time-is-now-to-learn-how-to-find-more-grace-through-uncertainty/) - [How to Engage Responsibly with the News When You're a Highly Sensitive Person](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-engage-responsibly-with-the-news-when-youre-a-highly-sensitive-person/) - [Is it Possible that the World is Only Asking this One Thing of You?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-it-possible-that-the-world-is-only-asking-this-one-thing-of-you/) - [When the World Weeps, I Carry the Tears in the Cups of my Hands](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-the-world-weeps-i-carry-the-tears-in-the-cups-of-my-hands/) - [There's No Such Thing as a Perfect Mother... and Why That's Important to Know](https://conscious-transitions.com/theres-no-such-thing-as-a-perfect-mother-and-why-thats-important-to-know/) - [I Offer This to You In Anticipation of Mother’s Day](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-offer-this-to-you-in-anticipation-of-mothers-day/) - [Healing the Mother Wound](https://conscious-transitions.com/healing-the-mother-wound/) - [Anxiety Sneakily Grabbed Me Last Week, and This is How I Responded](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-sneakily-grabbed-me-last-week-and-this-is-how-i-responded/) - [96 Words for Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/96-words-for-love/) - [I'm Excited to Share this News With You, Dear Readers!](https://conscious-transitions.com/im-excited-to-share-this-news-with-you-dear-readers/) - [Are You Seeking a Magic Potion to Free You From Relationship Anxiety?](https://conscious-transitions.com/are-you-seeking-a-magic-potion-to-free-you-from-relationship-anxiety/) - [Relationship Anxiety: Fear Eyes or Clear Eyes?](https://conscious-transitions.com/relationship-anxiety-fear-eyes-or-clear-eyes/) - [How Spring Can Help Heal One Aspect of Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-spring-can-help-heal-one-aspect-of-relationship-anxiety/) - [This is One of the Essential Pieces to Heal from Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-essential-pieces-to-heal-from-relationship-anxiety/) - [There is Gold Inside Your Long Black Shadow Bag and This is How to Find It](https://conscious-transitions.com/there-is-gold-inside-your-long-black-shadow-bag-and-this-is-how-to-find-it/) - [Intrusive Pain](https://conscious-transitions.com/intrusive-pain/) - [Unlocking this One Root of Perfectionism Could Set You Free](https://conscious-transitions.com/unlocking-this-one-root-of-perfectionism-could-set-you-free/) - Many people believe that their perfectionism spurs them to succeed, but when we breakdown perfectionism we see that it hinders growth and happiness. - [When World Anxiety is at a Heartbreaking High, This is What I Do](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-world-anxiety-is-at-a-heartbreaking-high-this-is-what-i-do/) - [This is One Reason Why People are Scared to Trust Themselves](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-reason-why-people-are-scared-to-trust-themselves/) - [What If My Anxiety is Actually Intuition that Something is Wrong?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-my-anxiety-is-actually-intuition-that-something-is-wrong/) - [One Brave Man Finds Freedom From Social Anxiety and Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-brave-man-finds-freedom-from-social-anxiety-and-relationship-anxiety/) - [Do you Feel Scared by the Phrase "Drop into Your Body"?](https://conscious-transitions.com/do-you-feel-scared-by-the-phrase-drop-into-your-body/) - [This is One Way to Resolve These Common "What If" Questions](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-way-to-resolve-these-common-what-if-questions/) - [My Recent Covid Scare and the Goodness of the World](https://conscious-transitions.com/my-recent-covid-scare-and-the-goodness-of-the-world/) - [This is the Magic that Happens When Women Share their Fears about Sexuality](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-magic-that-happens-when-women-share-their-fears-about-sexuality/) - [Are you Ready to Reclaim Your Sacred Sexuality? The Time is Now.](https://conscious-transitions.com/are-you-ready-to-reclaim-your-sacred-sexuality-the-time-is-now/) - [A Christmas Eve Gift for You: Gathering Gold through Winter's Paradox](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-christmas-eve-gift-for-you-gathering-gold-through-winters-paradox/) - [I'm Going to Tell You a Few Essential Secrets that Make Life Worth Living](https://conscious-transitions.com/im-going-to-tell-you-a-few-essential-secrets-that-make-life-worth-living/) - [This is the Roadmap of Relationship Anxiety that will Help you Break Free](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-roadmap-of-relationship-anxiety-that-will-help-you-break-free/) - [Who Sits at the Head of Your Table?](https://conscious-transitions.com/who-sits-at-the-head-of-your-table/) - [This is One of the Most Effective Ways to Break Free from an Intrusive Thought](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-most-effective-ways-to-break-free-from-an-intrusive-thought/) - [If You're Feeling Lonely During the Holidays, You're Not Alone](https://conscious-transitions.com/if-youre-feeling-lonely-during-the-holidays-youre-not-alone/) - [I'm Sending You Some Comfort and Guidance as We Enter the Holidays](https://conscious-transitions.com/im-sending-you-some-comfort-and-guidance-as-we-enter-the-holidays/) - [Gratitude 108 Offering](https://conscious-transitions.com/gratitude-108-offering/) - [This is How Worry Can Steal our Breath and Also Return It](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-worry-can-steal-our-breath-and-also-return-it/) - [I Turned 50 on Friday and This is What I Want to Share With You](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-turned-50-on-friday-and-this-is-what-i-want-to-share-with-you/) - [How do I Know the Difference Between Intuition and Fear?](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-do-i-know-the-difference-between-intuition-and-fear/) - [How Laughter and Humor Can Be Sources of Both Pain and Joy](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-laughter-and-humor-can-be-sources-of-both-pain-and-joy/) - [How the Anxiety, Grief, and Joy of Autumn Can Lead the Way to Growth](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-the-anxiety-grief-and-joy-of-autumn-can-lead-the-way-to-growth/) - [If You're Struggling with Relationship Anxiety, this One is For You](https://conscious-transitions.com/if-youre-struggling-with-relationship-anxiety-this-one-is-for-you/) - [Feeling Anxiety About the State of the World? You're Not Alone.](https://conscious-transitions.com/feeling-anxiety-about-the-state-of-the-world-youre-not-alone/) - [How Do We Trust Ourselves to Make Good Decisions During Pandemic Flux?](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-do-we-trust-ourselves-to-make-good-decisions-during-pandemic-flux/) - [Healing From Suffering Requires Meeting this One Character with Kindness](https://conscious-transitions.com/healing-from-suffering-requires-meeting-this-one-character/) - [Intergenerational Wounds: Healing the Pain that Didn't Start with You](https://conscious-transitions.com/intergenerational-wounds-healing-the-pain-that-didnt-start-with-you/) - [This Is a Roadmap to Break Free From Anxiety at Last](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-a-roadmap-to-break-free-from-anxiety-at-last/) - A 9-month course with Sheryl Paul to learn the skills, mindsets, and community that you should have received in school that will help break free from anxiety. - [This is the First - and Most Essential - Step to Heal your Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-first-and-most-essential-step-to-heal-your-anxiety/) - ["Why This Was the Best Investment I Have Ever Made on Myself"](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-this-was-the-best-investment-i-have-ever-made-on-myself/) - [This is the Most Powerful Tool to Break Free From Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-most-powerful-tool-to-break-free-from-intrusive-thoughtsfeelings-are-messy/) - [And So I Sing at the Intersection of Summer and Autumn](https://conscious-transitions.com/and-so-i-sing-at-the-intersection-of-summer-and-autumn/) - [Oh, Let us Tell You About the Joy AND Grief of Summer!](https://conscious-transitions.com/oh-let-us-tell-you-about-the-joy-and-grief-of-summer/) - [Is It Possible to Feel Joyful When Things Are Falling Apart?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-it-possible-to-feel-joyful-when-things-are-falling-apart/) - [This is How to Take an Intrusive Thought and Spin It Into Gold](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-to-take-an-intrusive-thought-and-spin-it-into-gold/) - [This is the Best Way I Know for How to Soothe the Fear of Loss](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-best-way-i-know-for-how-to-soothe-the-fear-of-loss/) - [Falling in Love Depends on this One Quality](https://conscious-transitions.com/falling-in-love-depends-on-this-one-quality/) - [Gathering Gold: Episode 2](https://conscious-transitions.com/gathering-gold-episode-2/) - [This is How My Husband and I are Like Ducks in the Creek](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-my-husband-and-i-are-like-ducks-in-the-creek/) - [A New Birth: Announcing the "Roots and Crown" Podcast](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-new-birth-announcing-the-roots-and-crown-podcast/) - [This is One of the Essential Pieces to Healing from Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-essential-pieces-to-healing-from-relationship-anxiety/) - [When the Witching-Hour Grabs Me by the Throat, This is How I Respond](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-the-witching-hour-grabs-me-by-the-throat-this-is-how-i-respond/) - [This is the #1 Question I'm Asked about Love and Attraction](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-1-question-im-asked-about-love-and-attraction/) - [Why This is an Essential Time to Open to Your Loving Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-this-is-an-essential-time-to-open-to-your-loving-partner/) - [This is How to Teach Your Body that Secure Attachment is Sexy](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-to-teach-your-body-that-attachment-is-sexy/) - [How One Small Moment Can Heal Pain From the Past](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-one-small-moment-can-heal-pain-from-the-past/) - [This Essential Piece Can Help You Heal from Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-essential-piece-can-help-you-heal-from-relationship-anxiety/) - #post_contentAt the core of breaking free from relationship anxiety lives one crucial element: learning to name the projections onto your partner as blame and making a choice to take full responsibility for the pain that long pre-dated your pare - [Answering this One Question Could Free You From Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/answering-this-one-question-could-free-you-from-anxiety/) - [This is One Way to Create Self-Trust in Kids](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-way-to-create-self-trust-in-kids/) - The tasks of parenting have changed over recent decades. Our children are not here to fulfill our needs and reams. We're here to support theirs. - [There are Many Ways to Eat, Pray and Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/there-are-many-ways-to-eat-pray-and-love/) - In a world where we are bombarded daily by other people’s stories, paths, and opinions it's more important than ever to reclaim your lost self-trust. - [Something is Broken, But It's Not You](https://conscious-transitions.com/something-is-broken-but-its-not-you/) - We're raised in a culture that tells us that our symptoms are evidence of brokenness, which leads to shame and more symptoms. Symptoms are evidence of wisdom. - [Career Anxiety and the Courage to Be You](https://conscious-transitions.com/career-anxiety-and-the-courage-to-be-you/) - There's been an upsurge in career anxiety since covid, which I see as an opportunity to reassess priorities and come into closer alignment with who you are. - [Relationship Anxiety 101 - Here's What You Need to Know](https://conscious-transitions.com/relationship-anxiety-101-heres-what-you-need-to-know/) - [This is What Lives at the Very Heart of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-lives-at-the-very-heart-of-anxiety/) - At the heart of anxiety lives the message of our heart: the need to feel our emotional life fully without trying to numb or escape. - [There is Not One Prescription for Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/there-is-not-one-prescription-for-healing/) - [This is One Way to Serve the World (and it's not what you think)](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-way-to-serve-the-world-and-its-not-what-you-think/) - There are many ways to serve the world, and there's one that is often overlooked yet contributes greatly to the healing of the whole. - [Why is Sex So Confusing? I Have a Few Ideas.](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-is-sex-so-confusing-i-have-a-few-ideas/) - Most people struggle with sexuality because we're not given a healthy template or information about what sacred sexuality looks like. But there is a way through - [How to Have the Greatest Sex of Your Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-have-the-greatest-sex-of-your-life/) - Our culture gives you a faulty prescription for how to have great sex. This is the real one. - [This is How to Rewire Your Anxious Brain](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-to-rewire-your-anxious-brain/) - There are key tools we can learn that will help us rewire our anxious response and increase our capacity to meet fear and grow love. - [This is How I Transform Worry into Trust](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-i-transform-worry-into-trust/) - This is the four-step practice I've used since my sons were born to practice transforming worry into trust. Now my 16-year flies airplane. - [These Overlooked Traumas Can Lead to Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/these-overlooked-traumas-can-lead-to-anxiety/) - [How to Navigate the Holidays During a Pandemic](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-navigate-the-holidays-during-a-pandemic/) - The holidays can be triggering in the best of times, but add a pandemic to the holiday pie and things ramp up exponentially. - [This is What Often Unleashes Anxiety and Panic](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-often-unleashes-anxiety-and-panic/) - Most people experience change as a death experience, which leaves unfinished transitions carrying the seeds for future pain and also unleash anxiety. - [This is What Strikes Me About Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-strikes-me-about-relationship-anxiety/) - [Memories, Dreams and Reflections on my 49th Birthday](https://conscious-transitions.com/memories-dreams-and-reflections-on-my-49th-birthday/) - [What is the Difference Between Relationship Anxiety and ROCD?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-is-the-difference-between-relationship-anxiety-and-rocd/) - [This is What is Hidden Inside Intrusive Thoughts - and How to Break Free](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-is-hidden-inside-intrusive-thoughts-and-how-to-break-free/) - [Absorbing Other People's Lives](https://conscious-transitions.com/absorbing-other-peoples-lives/) - [Our Family is in a Big Transition. This is How I'm Navigating It.](https://conscious-transitions.com/our-family-is-in-a-big-transition-this-is-how-im-navigating-it/) - As our son go to school for the first time after 16 years of homeschooling, our family tumbles through this transition and find ourselves anew. - [This is What I Know About Self-Doubt](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-i-know-about-self-doubt/) - At the core of resistance to expressing ourselves creatively and in relationships is self-doubt. But there is a roadmap through. - [This is What I Know About Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-i-know-about-healing/) - Healing depends on being in reciprocal relationship with self, others, and the divine (by which I mean something greater than ourselves). - [Why this is the Time to Heal Your Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-this-is-the-time-to-heal-your-anxiety/) - [This is What Lives Underneath Your Shame and Pain](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-lives-underneath-your-shame-and-pain/) - There is a place inside of you that is untouched by trauma, and an aspect of healing is learning to access this place of essential goodness. - [How to Navigate Covid-19 - Let Me Count the Ways](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-navigate-covid-19-let-me-count-the-ways/) - For the sensitive-anxious-creative person, covid-19 is presenting a particular challenge and opportunity to heal several layers of shame and self-judgment. - [Bored and Lonely](https://conscious-transitions.com/bored-and-lonely/) - [This is One Overlooked Root Cause of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-overlooked-root-cause-of-anxiety/) - Highly sensitive people are also deeply intellectual people, which means our minds need to be stimulated otherwise boredom takes hold and anxiety ensues. - [Six Years Ago: August 9th, 2004](https://conscious-transitions.com/six-years-ago-august-9th-2004/) - [The Grief and Joy of Letting Go](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-grief-and-joy-of-letting-go/) - Attachment parenting teaches that the more you attend to your child's needs, the safer they will feel to stretch their wings and fly. - [This Is the Expectation that Ruins Relationships](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-expectation-that-ruins-relationships/) - If you expect that it's your partner's job to make you feel alive, you're setting yourself up for a miserable relationship. - [This Is The True Definition Of Being In Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-true-definition-of-being-in-love/) - The culture teaches that you're either in love or not, and that when you're in love you "just know." My course, Open Your Heart, teaches another approach. - [This Is The Gold That Awaits Inside The Fear Of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-gold-that-awaits-inside-the-fear-of-love/) - There are Love Laws and Loving Actions that, when practiced, will help you grow the relationship of your dreams. - [Suffering from "Just Right" Anxiety? You're Not Alone](https://conscious-transitions.com/suffering-from-just-right-anxiety-youre-not-alone/) - [A Guide On How To Help Sensitive Kids Thrive](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-guide-on-how-to-help-sensitive-kids-thrive/) - We're living through challenging times. This guide for parents can help them take actions that will help their sensitive child thrive. - [Here Is A Lifeline To Interrupt Health Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/here-is-a-lifeline-to-interrupt-health-anxiety/) - [You Can't Stop the Waves but You Can Learn to Surf](https://conscious-transitions.com/you-cant-stop-the-waves-but-you-can-learn-to-surf/) - [How to Find Your Anchors During Difficult Times](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-find-your-anchors-during-difficult-times/) - During this time of heightened uncertainty, we need to anchor into spiritual practices so that we can serve as a lighthouse for others. - [This is a Piece That Many Therapists Miss](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-a-piece-that-many-therapists-miss/) - [This Is the #1 Belief That Keeps Love Out](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-1-belief-that-keeps-love-out/) - At the core of relationship anxiety is one belief that protects the heart and prevents others from getting too close. - [What's Your Running Commentary?](https://conscious-transitions.com/whats-your-running-commentary/) - [How to Unveil the True Definition of Mother's Day](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-unveil-the-true-definition-of-mothers-day/) - [Comparative Suffering and "First World Problems"](https://conscious-transitions.com/comparative-suffering-and-first-world-problems/) - "Comparative suffering", as Brené Brown names it, is yet another way that we invalidate our feelings. Instead, feelings need only one thing: to be heard. - [There is a River of Light Inside Your Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/there-is-a-river-of-light-inside-your-intrusive-thoughts/) - If you take intrusive thoughts at face value you will go down the rabbit hole shame and anxiety, but when you learn to read the metaphor everything changes. - [How to Protect Your Inner World During Coronavirus](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-protect-your-inner-world-during-coronavirus/) - We can learn to stay calm even amidst the storm of this pandemic when we have a full well of self and we learn how to trust ourselves. - [This is What Anxiety, Fear, and Anger Protect Against](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-anxiety-fear-and-anger-protect-against/) - [Love in the Time of Corona](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-in-the-time-of-corona/) - Relationship anxiety can be heightened during all transitions, and the global transition initiated by the coronavirus is no exception. - [A Calming Visualization in a Time of Fear and Uncertainty](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-calming-visualization-in-a-time-of-fear-and-uncertainty/) - During this pandemic, we're being asked to learn how to meet fear and uncertainty with compassion and calm. These visualization will help you do so. - [What to Do When Fear of the Pandemic Washes In](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-to-do-when-fear-of-the-pandemic-washes-in/) - As we stand at this unprecedented time, it's essential to turn to mindsets and practices that offer steadiness, hope, and comfort. - [This Searing Pain Is An Overlooked Root Cause Of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-searing-pain-is-an-overlooked-root-cause-of-anxiety/) - We talk often about the pain that comes from parents' deficiencies, but we tend to overlook the primary pain that young people endure at the hand of peers. - [What to Do When Your Partner Makes You Flinch](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-to-do-when-your-partner-makes-you-flinch/) - [What to Do When You Fall Out of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-to-do-when-you-fall-out-of-love/) - Everyone will fall out of love at some point, and that's the point when learning about real love begins. - [Flags Versus Red Flags](https://conscious-transitions.com/flags-versus-red-flags/) - When it comes to relationship anxiety, people have a hard time discerning between flags and red flags: signs that you need attention or the relationship does. - [This Is the Fastest Way I Know to Shift From Darkness to Light](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-fastest-way-i-know-to-shift-from-darkness-to-light/) - When struggling with a dark season, there are simple mindsets and tools that will help you lift up a leaf and find a slender ray of light. - [Is Love a Risk? Absolutely. And There is no Greater Joy](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-love-a-risk-absolutely-and-there-is-no-greater-joy/) - The more we learn to attend to the gates around the heart - including worry, intrusive thoughts, and our fear of feelings - the more deeply we can love. - [This is What it Takes to Become a Grown Up](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-it-takes-to-become-a-grown-up/) - Our culture doesn't prepare us for growing up, yet we all have to cross over the ravine from childhood to adulthood. - [Wonder Twins Please Rescue Me From This One Pain](https://conscious-transitions.com/wonder-twins-please-rescue-me-from-this-one-pain/) - The expectation that a partner or friend will meet every need and attune perfectly is a protection against feeling the fundamental loneliness of being human. - [How this Powerful Character Can Sabotage Personal Growth](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-this-powerful-character-can-sabotage-personal-growth/) - We often talk about self-compassion in the healing journey these days and accepting all parts of ourselves. But are we still okay if we can't always do that? - [This is What is Embedded Inside Fear and Regret](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-is-embedded-inside-fear-and-regret/) - [This is One of the Scariest Things Humans Do](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-one-of-the-scariest-things-humans-do/) - We can walk on fire, climb the tallest buildings, and jump out of airplanes, but there is one thing even scarier that we all do: bare fully to our partners. - [I Hid in the Bookstore to Learn About Sex](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-hid-in-the-bookstore-to-learn-about-sex/) - Sexuality carries worlds of shame, but in the safety of an online community we can emerge from our caves of shame and find a layer of healing. - [This is the Most Common Statement I Hear About Sex](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-most-common-statement-i-hear-about-sex/) - In order to reclaim our vibrancy and sexual aliveness, we must excavate shame and heal it at the root. - [How to Manage Gift Anxiety Through the Holidays](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-manage-gift-anxiety-through-the-holidays/) - [How to Excavate the Hidden Wounds to Help you Heal Shame](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-excavate-the-hidden-wounds-to-help-you-heal-shame/) - When we explore intergenerational trauma we see the unconscious scripts and stories that inform our sense of self, particularly our guilt and shame. - [This is a Powerful Predictor of Your Well-Being](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-a-powerful-predictor-of-your-well-being/) - [This is the Most Powerful Hijacker of Your Healing Path](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-the-most-powerful-hijacker-of-your-healing-path/) - When you allow the sentiment of "I don't feel like it" to run your show, you hijack your inner growth. - [How to Find a Therapist](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-find-a-therapist/) - [Anxiety is a Game of Whack-A-Mole](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-is-a-game-of-whack-a-mole/) - When dealing with intrusive thoughts, you can resolve one thought but if you don't address it from the root and holistically, it will pop up somewhere else. - [Career Anxiety And How To Trust Your Path](https://conscious-transitions.com/career-anxiety-and-how-to-trust-your-path/) - Many people suffer from career anxiety and falling into the myth of a "calling." My Trust Yourself course addresses this anxiety at the root. - [This Simple Mindset Shift is at the Heart of Change](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-simple-mindset-shift-is-at-the-heart-of-change/) - There's a simple equation and set of tools that, when practiced, can help you learn how to trust yourself, trust your decisions, and like who you are. - [Why this is the Most Powerful Question to Break Through Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-this-is-the-most-powerful-question-to-break-through-intrusive-thoughts/) - [The Initiation of Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-initiation-of-relationship-anxiety/) - [Grandmother's Roses](https://conscious-transitions.com/grandmothers-roses/) - [These Two Banished Emotions Need to be Invited to the Castle](https://conscious-transitions.com/these-two-banished-emotions-need-to-be-invited-to-the-castle/) - We're culturally and biologically conditioned to banish difficult emotions like longing and envy, but when we invite them to the table of psyche we heal. - [These Two Characters are at the Heart of Reparenting](https://conscious-transitions.com/these-two-characters-are-at-the-heart-of-reparenting/) - Reparenting is the process of repairing wound left by early caregivers. Understanding these two parts will facilitate your healing. - [The New Pledge of the Highly Sensitive is Life-Changing](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-new-pledge-of-the-highly-sensitive-is-life-changing/) - This one simply shift can change your life inner and outer life. Simple to understand. Very challenging to implement. - [Exposing the Truth in this Important Intrusive Thought](https://conscious-transitions.com/exposing-the-truth-in-this-important-intrusive-thought/) - When the thought "something is missing" orbits around your mind, it's trying to find its way to ignite discovery. The message is not what you think. - [A Thought is Just a Thought](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-thought-is-just-a-thought/) - [Dismantling this Offshoot of Anxiety Will Set You Free](https://conscious-transitions.com/dismantling-this-offshoot-of-anxiety-will-set-you-free/) - When we're mired in anxiety, it's tempting to seek reassurance but this only throws logs on the fear-fire. Using this tool will set you on a few trajectory. - [Separation Anxiety and the Fear of Death](https://conscious-transitions.com/separation-anxiety-and-the-fear-of-death/) - [This is What Actually Goes on Behind Closed Doors](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-actually-goes-on-behind-closed-doors/) - [Whatever You Water Will Grow](https://conscious-transitions.com/whatever-you-water-will-grow/) - [This is How to Overcome the Most Powerful Obstacle to Change](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-to-overcome-the-most-powerful-obstacle-to-change/) - With the plethora of information and tools available these days, we would think we would be healed and thriving. But there is one element we must address first. - [The Fantasies that Most People Have About Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fantasies-that-most-people-have-about-love/) - If you want to grow a healthier mindset about relationships that will allow you to feel move love for yourself and your partner, follow the steps in this post. - [The Most Powerful Medicine to Soothe a Rupture of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-most-powerful-medicine-to-soothe-a-rupture-of-anxiety/) - As the earth tilts between seasons, grief and memories are unleashed. When we drop into the grief, intrusive thoughts and anxiety quiet down. - [Not attracted? Learn How to Unclog the Blocked Flow of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/not-attracted-learn-how-to-unclog-the-blocked-flow-of-love/) - When you're not attracted to a loving, well-matched partner there are Love Laws and Loving Actions that can help you unclog the flow and open your heart. - [How to Harness the Hidden Sexy Ingredient of Marriage](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-harness-the-hidden-sexy-ingredient-of-marriage/) - Our culture teaches that aging and sexiness are mutually exclusive, but it's a lie. When you learn Love Laws and Loving Actions that shrink fear, love grows. - [How to Multiply Your Love and Attraction](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-multiply-your-love-and-attraction/) - If you could set fear on the fence and love with full trust your heart would open and you would experience the love you long for. This course shows you how. - [This is How I Learned to Love My Husband Well](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-how-i-learned-to-love-my-husband-well/) - A healthy marriage doesn't depend on knowing how to love well from the get-go. A good marriage depends on the willingness to learn how to love over time. - [Season of the Fallen Flower](https://conscious-transitions.com/season-of-the-fallen-flower/) - [Remedies for Eco-Anxiety and Absorbing the Pain of the World](https://conscious-transitions.com/remedies-for-eco-anxiety-and-absorbing-the-pain-of-the-world/) - Eco-anxiety and world pain - like all forms of anxiety - carry multiple layers of meaning and messages that can help us heal both individually and as a planet. - ["Real Love Is Only What You Give"](https://conscious-transitions.com/real-love-is-only-what-you-give/) - [A Love Story is the Medicine for the Fear of Loss](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-love-story-is-the-medicine-for-the-fear-of-loss/) - The medicine for the fear of loss that accompanies all relationships is allowing yourself to grieve and orienting toward love. - [This is Why You Struggle with Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-why-you-struggle-with-relationship-anxiety/) - Nowhere does the distortion around romantic love reveal itself more prominently than in the pervasive ideology that your partner is supposed to complete you. - [How to Break Free from the Mental Addiction of Health Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-break-free-from-the-mental-addiction-of-health-anxiety/) - [Fear Distorts Perception](https://conscious-transitions.com/fear-distorts-perception/) - Most people don't understand the power of fear, which causes them run at the first sign of not feeling attracted to their partner. - [The Gift of Projection](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-gift-of-projection/) - Projection is one of the most important concepts to understand when you're stuck in relationship anxiety or any manifestation of anxiety. - [Real Love is Available Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/real-love-is-available-love/) - Western culture is full of misconceptions about what real love is and think it's the infatuation feelings brought on by chase and drama. This isn't love at all. - [Join Me in the Arena with Brené Brown](https://conscious-transitions.com/join-me-in-the-arena-with-brene-brown/) - Examining what it means to be "in the arena" and taking the risk of being vulnerable in all areas of our lives, from work to love to parenting. - [Love is a Bowl of Oatmeal](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-a-bowl-of-oatmeal/) - [The Risk of Living and Loving](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-risk-of-living-and-loving/) - ["The Wisdom of Anxiety" is Coming Down the Birth Canal](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-wisdom-of-anxiety-is-coming-down-the-birth-canal/) - Upcoming release of my new book, "The Wisdom of Anxiety: How worry and intrusive thoughts are gifts to help you heal." Published by Sounds True May 2019. - [Ode to Women](https://conscious-transitions.com/ode-to-women/) - [The Richness of Winter](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-richness-of-winter/) - The highly sensitive among us feel winter's imminent descent with each minute of daylight that joins the tribe of night. - [The Gay Spike](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-gay-spike/) - There are thousands, if not millions, of straight people suffering from the obsessive question, "What if I'm gay/straight?" - [Fear: A Love Story](https://conscious-transitions.com/fear-a-love-story/) - The story of working with our son's long-standing nighttime fears continues. - [Love is Stronger than Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-stronger-than-fear/) - Working with a child's nighttime fears can be exceptionally challenging. These are a few tools that works for us over time. - [Alanis and the E-Course: Lesson 7 (Incomplete)](https://conscious-transitions.com/alanis-and-the-e-course-lesson-7-incomplete/) - Lesson 7 of The Conscious Weddings E-Course is "What Does Marriage Mean Today?" The short answer is that marriage today is whatever you want it to be. - [Alanis and the E-Course: Lesson 5 (Thank U)](https://conscious-transitions.com/alanis-and-the-e-course-lesson-5-thank-u/) - "At the core of every spiritual discipline is learning to work with the fear-based thoughts that intrude on the mind." - [Gratitude: An Antidote for Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/gratitude-an-antidote-for-anxiety/) - Gratitude is a common exercise I prescribe for clients in the midst of the transitions I most commonly work with, and for the transition of life itself. - [A Few Words on the Word Ritual](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-few-words-on-the-word-ritual/) - The word ritual can connote a religious or spiritual meaning, but a meaningful ritual is simply a repeated action that is done with conscious intention. - [Moving](https://conscious-transitions.com/moving/) - [No Escape Hatch From Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/no-escape-hatch-from-life/) - Despite what our thoughts tell us, there is no escape from the inherent loneliness, fear, vulnerability, and transcendence of being human. - [Intrusive Thought: "I Have to be Single In Order to Heal"](https://conscious-transitions.com/intrusive-thought-i-have-to-be-single-in-order-to-heal/) - This intrusive thought that can accompany relationship anxiety creates untold angst until you learn to unpack it from the core and attend to what's needed. - [The Lives We'll Never Live](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-lives-well-never-live/) - [This is What it Takes to Heal from Shame and Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/this-is-what-takes-to-heal-from-shame-and-anxiety/) - There is one quality that heals, and it's the quality you need in every healing relationship that most people don't talk about. - [Bittersweet Spring](https://conscious-transitions.com/bittersweet-spring/) - [A Brief Guide on How to Grieve](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-brief-guide-on-how-to-grieve/) - At some point along the way, you realize that the path to joy includes reconnecting with the lost pain and learning how to tend to it like you would a child. - [A Lifeline of Hope in the Swamp of Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-lifeline-of-hope-in-the-swamp-of-relationship-anxiety/) - Healing from relationship anxiety is entirely possible, but for many people it's a process that can't be rushed. True healing from the root takes time. - [Self-Trust, Red Flags and Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/self-trust-red-flags-and-relationship-anxiety/) - When struggling with relationship anxiety, it's essential to discern between true red flags and gray areas. When you trust yourself, you can more easily discern - [A Remedy When You Don't Know Who You Are](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-remedy-when-you-dont-know-who-you-are/) - Because we've been raised in a culture that teaches us to seek external validation for self-worth, many people don't know who they are. There is a remedy. - [Real Love Versus Infatuation](https://conscious-transitions.com/real-love-versus-infatuation/) - [Regret and the Intrusive Thought of, "If Only I Had..."](https://conscious-transitions.com/regret-and-the-intrusive-thought-of-if-only-i-had/) - Many people struggle with regret often to the point where it becomes an intrusive thought. When you learn to work with it from the root, you will find freedom. - [The Best Piece of Advice I Can Give You to Reduce Your Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-best-piece-of-advice-i-can-give-you-to-reduce-your-anxiety/) - This it the piece of advice that I tell every clients and course member, and it can reduce anxiety immediately and with long-term benefits. - ["My Partner Isn't Smart Enough"](https://conscious-transitions.com/my-partner-isnt-smart-enough/) - This common intrusive thought for those struggling with relationship anxiety is a projection of places inside that need your attention. - [Netflix's "After Life": A Walk Through the Valley of Grief](https://conscious-transitions.com/netflixs-after-life-a-walk-through-the-valley-of-grief/) - A review of Netflix's show After Life that discusses the emotional underpinnings of what happens when we walk through grief with compassion and consciousness. - [Love and Loneliness](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-and-loneliness/) - There's a fundamental loneliness that is part of the fabric of being human. The paradox of loneliness is when we befriend it, it shapeshifts into another form. - [How to Decode the Intrusive Thought: "You're Too Silly"](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-decode-the-intrusive-thought-youre-too-silly/) - There are many ways to push away a loving partner, and one of them is by believing the spike of "You're too silly." Let's deconstruct this from the root. - [Would You Like To Know Why Real Love Is So Scary?](https://conscious-transitions.com/would-you-like-to-know-why-real-love-is-so-scary/) - It's scary not only because we've been hurt but because we dance between the polarities of the fear of losing ourselves and the fear of losing other. - [You Are Loved](https://conscious-transitions.com/you-are-loved/) - [How to Grow Love and Attraction to Your Loving Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-grow-love-and-attraction-to-your-loving-partner/) - We're told that you're either in love or not, and if feelings like doubt and repulsion creep in it means you're with the wrong person. I hold a different view. - [Announcing an Exciting 20th Anniversary Surprise](https://conscious-transitions.com/announcing-an-exciting-20th-anniversary-surprise/) - Twenty years after launching the first incarnation of this site, a new site is born. There are many free offerings, and best of all, it's mobile-responsive! - [Living God's Will](https://conscious-transitions.com/living-gods-will/) - [A 24-Hour Challenge](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-24-hour-challenge/) - [How One of Netflix's Top Shows Can Help You Fall in Love with Your Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-one-of-netflixs-top-shows-can-help-you-fall-in-love-with-your-partner/) - When you're wired for anxiety, you focus on what's not working and you're more prone to projection with your partner. This tool helps to break that down. - [To See Beyond Attraction](https://conscious-transitions.com/to-see-beyond-attraction/) - We have a very limited view of attraction in our culture, and when the initial attraction fades, we panic. We need to learn to rewire to see essence. - [A Manual for Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-manual-for-love/) - [Falling in Love with Other People](https://conscious-transitions.com/falling-in-love-with-other-people/) - [Feeding the Demons of Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/feeding-the-demons-of-intrusive-thoughts/) - [How One Lightbulb Moment Can Ease Your Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-one-lightbulb-moment-can-ease-your-anxiety/) - Healing from anxiety doesn't happen quickly, but when we receive a powerful moment of insight it can change how we approach the anxiety in dramatic ways. - [January: The Liminal Month](https://conscious-transitions.com/january-the-liminal-month/) - [World Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/world-anxiety/) - [Leaf in the Wind Syndrome](https://conscious-transitions.com/leaf-in-the-wind-syndrome/) - [Life Is Not A Popularity Contest](https://conscious-transitions.com/life-is-not-a-popularity-contest/) - [Caught in the Story](https://conscious-transitions.com/caught-in-the-story/) - ["What If I'm Too Young?"](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-im-too-young/) - [The Gift of Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-gift-of-intrusive-thoughts/) - [For Men: When You're Not Attracted to Your Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/for-men-when-youre-not-attracted-to-your-partner/) - Men often struggle with lack of attraction to their partner without realizing that this pervasive rumination is a defense against deeper feeling. - [Does Relationship Anxiety Ever End?](https://conscious-transitions.com/does-relationship-anxiety-ever-end/) - [What Should Love Feel Like?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-should-love-feel-like/) - [When Love Makes You Flinch](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-love-makes-you-flinch/) - [When You're Irritated With Your Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-youre-irritated-with-your-partner/) - [When You Feel Irritated with Your Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-you-feel-irritated-with-your-partner/) - [Angels All Around Us](https://conscious-transitions.com/angels-all-around-us/) - [Being in Silence](https://conscious-transitions.com/being-in-silence/) - [The Poetry of Loss](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-poetry-of-loss/) - Autumn, love, and raising children bring an awareness of loss. When we avoid the loss, we push away love and it siphons into anxiety and intrusive thoughts. - [One Body](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-body/) - [Take Back Your Gold](https://conscious-transitions.com/take-back-your-gold/) - [A Moment in My Marriage](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-moment-in-my-marriage/) - Anxiety steals us away from love, and life circumstances come in to suck out the air. But long-term, loving, passionate marriage is possible. We are proof. - [The Mysterious Element of Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-mysterious-element-of-healing/) - [A Beautiful Cry](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-beautiful-cry/) - [You Are Whole](https://conscious-transitions.com/you-are-whole/) - [Relief from Relationship Anxiety: Guest Post from the E-Course Forum](https://conscious-transitions.com/relief-from-relationship-anxiety-guest-post-from-the-e-course-forum/) - [Engagement Anxiety and the Ex](https://conscious-transitions.com/engagement-anxiety-and-the-ex/) - [Bye-Bye, Bachelor](https://conscious-transitions.com/bye-bye-bachelor/) - [Why Am I So Terrified?](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-am-i-so-terrified/) - [For The Anxiously Engaged: From ChristmasBride2006 on the Conscious Weddings Course Forum](https://conscious-transitions.com/for-the-anxiously-engaged-from-christmasbride2006-on-the-conscious-weddings-course-forum/) - [One of the Anxious Statements I Hear Every Week](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-of-the-anxious-statements-i-hear-every-week/) - The story of "not fitting in" is pervasive among those struggling with anxiety, and is often an offshoot of being on the sensitive-anxious continuum. - [The Two Most Important Qualities You Need in a Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-two-most-important-qualities-you-need-in-a-partner/) - [One of the Most Powerful Questions to Cut Through Anxiety (Relationships, Parenting, Health, Friendship)](https://conscious-transitions.com/one-of-the-most-powerful-questions-to-cut-through-anxiety-relationships-parenting-health-friendship/) - There is one question that cuts through the anxiety that shows up in many aspects of life, and when we remember to ask it anxiety decreases. - [A Roadmap for How to Reclaim Your Magnificent Body](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-roadmap-for-how-to-reclaim-your-magnificent-body/) - Healthy sexuality is your birthright, yet most people regard their body with shame. This 40-day course guides you toward cultivating more desire and aliveness. - [The Witching Hour](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-witching-hour/) - [Travel Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/travel-anxiety/) - [Take Care of Your Anxiety Like a Scared Child](https://conscious-transitions.com/take-care-of-your-anxiety-like-a-scared-child/) - [The Diamond Inside of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-diamond-inside-of-anxiety/) - [Risk Aversion and Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/risk-aversion-and-anxiety/) - [Am I the Only One Struggling with Anxiety?](https://conscious-transitions.com/am-i-the-only-one-struggling-with-anxiety/) - Because of our happy-face obsessed culture, it's easy to falsely think that you're the only one who struggles with anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and depression. - [The Intersection of Sex and Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-intersection-of-sex-and-relationship-anxiety/) - Relationship anxiety often centers on sexuality, meaning you test yourself to see if you have enough "chemistry" to measure if you're with the right partner. - [The Fear of Aging](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-aging/) - [The Dream of Happily Ever After](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-dream-of-happily-ever-after/) - [Doubt and the Drug of Happiness](https://conscious-transitions.com/doubt-and-the-drug-of-happiness/) - [The Passage of Time](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-passage-of-time/) - [The Long Way Home](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-long-way-home/) - [A Brave Explosion of the Myth of Desire](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-brave-explosion-of-the-myth-of-desire/) - We have a distorted idea of sexual desire in our culture which leads to massive amounts of shame. When we learn what true desire is we can open to our partner. - [Invisible Lines of Hope](https://conscious-transitions.com/invisible-lines-of-hope/) - [December: Turn Inward Against the Tide](https://conscious-transitions.com/december-turn-inward-against-the-tide/) - [Christmas in October](https://conscious-transitions.com/christmas-in-october/) - [Entering Midlife: A Personal Post](https://conscious-transitions.com/entering-midlife-a-personal-post/) - [Holy Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/holy-fear/) - [The Fear of Getting Old](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-getting-old/) - We live an agist culture that leads to people fearing getting old, which then contributes to anxiety. - [Wisdom From My Niece](https://conscious-transitions.com/wisdom-from-my-niece/) - [The Tumultuous Twenties](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-tumultuous-twenties/) - [The Day My Son Flew Into The Sky](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-day-my-son-flew-into-the-sky/) - The subtitle of this blog is "Lessons in Letting Go," and rarely does a day go by when I don't practice this lesson. This about how to let go of our children. - [Conversations with my Seven Year Old: In the Fear Forest](https://conscious-transitions.com/conversations-with-my-seven-year-old-in-the-fear-forest/) - [Guiding Children Through Grief: The Aftermath of the Colorado Floods](https://conscious-transitions.com/guiding-children-through-grief-the-aftermath-of-the-colorado-floods/) - [Turning Five](https://conscious-transitions.com/turning-five/) - [My Sons Are Teething](https://conscious-transitions.com/my-sons-are-teething/) - [Breathe in the Pain, Breathe out the Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/breathe-in-the-pain-breathe-out-the-love/) - [Raising a Sensitive Son](https://conscious-transitions.com/raising-a-sensitive-son/) - [The Transitions of Childhood](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-transitions-of-childhood/) - [Falling Out of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/falling-out-of-love/) - [For New Mothers: The Dishes Will Get Done... Eventually](https://conscious-transitions.com/for-new-mothers-the-dishes-will-get-done-eventually/) - [The Truth about New Motherhood](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-truth-about-new-motherhood/) - [Pregnancy Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/pregnancy-anxiety/) - [What Does it Really Mean to Be In Love?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-does-it-really-mean-to-be-in-love/) - [What If I'm Only With My Partner Because...](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-im-only-with-my-partner-because/) - [The Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Partner (According to Fear)](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-top-10-reasons-to-leave-your-partner-according-to-fear/) - [Anxious? You're One Of The Lucky Ones](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxious-youre-one-of-the-lucky-ones/) - [In Bed With Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/in-bed-with-fear/) - [When Anxious, Start at the Beginning](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-anxious-start-at-the-beginning/) - [Anxiety: A Portal to Serenity](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-a-portal-to-serenity/) - [Invite Anxiety to Tea](https://conscious-transitions.com/invite-anxiety-to-tea/) - [Anxiety: Ambassador of Wholeness](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-ambassador-of-wholeness/) - [Eight Touchstones for a Loving Sexual Relationship](https://conscious-transitions.com/eight-touchstones-for-a-loving-sexual-relationship/) - ["My Partner Doesn't Know How To Touch Me"](https://conscious-transitions.com/my-partner-doesnt-know-how-to-touch-me/) - Unlike relationship anxiety, sex anxiety isn't just about doubt about your partner, and it can hit at any time in a relationship: month one or 20 years in. - [We Have Forgotten Who We Are](https://conscious-transitions.com/we-have-forgotten-who-we-are/) - [Debunking Sexual Myths: Genital Response Means Desire](https://conscious-transitions.com/debunking-sexual-myths-genital-response-means-desire/) - Our culture leads many people to compare their sex life unattainable images, which then leads to the shame-laced question, "What's wrong with me?" - [Sex Begets Sex](https://conscious-transitions.com/sex-begets-sex/) - [Sacred Sexuality](https://conscious-transitions.com/sacred-sexuality/) - [The Escape Hatch of Perfection](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-escape-hatch-of-perfection/) - [Health Anxiety and the Fear of Loss](https://conscious-transitions.com/health-anxiety-and-the-fear-of-loss/) - Sensitive people need to learn a new way to channel the hypervigilent part that evolved to scan for danger. This is one of the roots of intrusive thoughts. - [In the Flow of this Uncertain Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/in-the-flow-of-this-uncertainlife/) - [The Fear of Losing Control](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-losing-control/) - [Grace Through Uncertainty](https://conscious-transitions.com/grace-through-uncertainty/) - A 30-day course to become more comfortable with the fear of loss and death. This course helps to heal worry and intrusive thoughts from the root. - [Living with Uncertainty](https://conscious-transitions.com/living-with-uncertainty/) - [The Need for Certainty](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-need-for-certainty/) - [When Infatuation Leads To Dead Butterflies](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-infatuation-leads-to-dead-butterflies/) - We have so much cultural confusion around love, and we mistakenly think that infatuation is a sign of real love. What to do when infatuation inevitably fades. - [The Unsung Ingredient of a Healthy Relationship](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-unsung-ingredient-of-a-healthy-relationship/) - [When You're Not Attracted to Your Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-youre-not-attracted-to-your-partner/) - [What Does It Mean To Be In Love?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-in-love/) - [When You're Not Attracted](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-youre-not-attracted/) - [The Awkwardness of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-awkwardness-of-love/) - [I Love You Go Away](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-love-you-go-away/) - [The Art of Making Decisions](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-art-of-making-decisions/) - [A Psychic Told Me To Leave My Relationship](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-psychic-told-me-to-leave-my-relationship/) - [What Is the "Right" Choice?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-is-the-right-choice/) - [The Imposter Syndrome](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-imposter-syndrome/) - [The Fear of Making a Mistake](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-making-a-mistake/) - [The Well of Self](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-well-of-self/) - [There's Something Broken But It's Not You](https://conscious-transitions.com/theres-something-broken-but-its-not-you/) - Most people carry a shame voice that says, "There's something wrong with me." The truth is that there's nothing wrong with you; it's the culture that's broken. - [Death, Eventually](https://conscious-transitions.com/death-eventually/) - [The Voices in Your Head](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-voices-in-your-head/) - [Where Anxiety Hangs Its Hat](https://conscious-transitions.com/where-anxiety-hangs-its-hat/) - [Caught in a Thought](https://conscious-transitions.com/caught-in-a-thought/) - [What is "The Work" of Breaking Free From Anxiety?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-is-the-work-of-breaking-free-from-anxiety/) - For those struggling with relationship anxiety, insight is important but action is critical. The work is any action that helps you engage with the fear. - [The Architecture of Anxiety and Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-architecture-of-anxiety-and-intrusive-thoughts/) - [Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/intrusive-thoughts/) - [Is My Partner the One for Me?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-my-partner-the-one-for-me/) - [Am I Only With My Partner Because S/he Makes Me Feel Safe?](https://conscious-transitions.com/am-i-only-with-my-partner-because-she-makes-me-feel-safe/) - [Relationship Anxiety and the Million-Dollar Question](https://conscious-transitions.com/relationship-anxiety-and-the-million-dollar-question/) - [Relationship Anxiety: Intuition or Fear?](https://conscious-transitions.com/relationship-anxiety-intuition-or-fear/) - [A Root of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-root-of-anxiety/) - [The Critical Moment to Break Free From Relationship Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-critical-moment-to-break-free-from-relationship-anxiety/) - [Explode the #1 Block to Healing from Anxiety (Relationship and Otherwise)](https://conscious-transitions.com/explode-the-1-block-to-healing-from-anxiety-relationship-and-otherwise/) - When working with anxiety we have to heal from the root, but we can't even begin to heal when the voices of shame are in the way. They must be addressed first. - [How to Shatter the Myths that Are Keeping You Stuck](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-shatter-the-myths-that-are-keeping-you-stuck/) - There are several myths that the mainstream culture propagates that lead to anxiety and depression. When you can identify them, you can break through. - [The 3 Biggest Mistakes People Make in Relationships and...](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-3-biggest-mistakes-people-make-in-relationships-and/) - In 20 years of coaching people through love I see people making these three mistakes repeatedly, which often cause them to leave a loving relationship. - [The Art of Patient Loving](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-art-of-patient-loving/) - [The Truth About Love (and my thoughts on Instagram)](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-truth-about-love-and-my-thoughts-on-instagram/) - [Longing to Feel In Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/longing-to-feel-in-love/) - [How to Let Go: A Dark-Night Page from my Journal](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-to-let-go-a-dark-night-page-from-my-journal/) - Letting go of our children is one of the most difficult things we do. As far as I can tell, there's only one way to do it: allow the feelings to move through. - [At the Heart of Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/at-the-heart-of-anxiety/) - We heal not only for ourselves. It's an important starting point, but then this inner healing naturally ripples outward. The world needs you to do this work. - [What You Choose Now Determines What Comes Next](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-you-choose-now-determines-what-comes-next/) - How we choose to walk through each transition - consciously or unconsciously - determines how we walk through the next one. - [A Foundational Key for Breaking Free From Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-foundational-key-for-breaking-free-from-anxiety/) - We cannot heal anxiety from our heads. Anxiety, a head space, needs a different energy field to heal it, which is the field and wisdom of the body. - [Heartbroken Not Broken](https://conscious-transitions.com/heartbroken-not-broken/) - Shame is often a placeholder for powerlessness and a protector against grief. Instead of feeling the rawness of grief, the mind latches onto a shame story. - [Deciphering Suicide](https://conscious-transitions.com/deciphering-suicide/) - The recent celebrity suicides are both heartbreaking and confusing, especially for those prone to anxiety, who wonders, "Could that happen to me?" - [The Scars of First Heartbreak](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-scars-of-first-heartbreak/) - For those struggling with relationship anxiety, the cure is to examine the root causes of why the heart rejects loving partners. First heartbreak is a clue. - [A Taste of My Own Medicine](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-taste-of-my-own-medicine/) - [Caring What Other People Think](https://conscious-transitions.com/caring-what-other-people-think/) - [The Scariest Thing We Do](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-scariest-thing-we-do/) - [The Cracks Are How the Light Comes In](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-cracks-are-how-the-light-comes-in/) - [Trust Your Gut](https://conscious-transitions.com/trust-your-gut/) - [Shrink Fear Grow Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/shrink-fear-grow-love/) - ["I Married the Wrong Person"](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-married-the-wrong-person/) - [Social Anxiety and the Cocktail Party](https://conscious-transitions.com/social-anxiety-and-the-cocktail-party/) - [A Christmas Tale of Woe](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-christmas-tale-of-woe/) - [God Is Everything Good](https://conscious-transitions.com/god-is-everything-good/) - [Lack of Desire](https://conscious-transitions.com/lack-of-desire/) - [Unpacking Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/unpacking-intrusive-thoughts/) - [Something is Wrong](https://conscious-transitions.com/something-is-wrong/) - [Live the Questions](https://conscious-transitions.com/live-the-questions/) - [When It's Time To Say Enough](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-its-time-to-say-enough/) - [What If We Don't Have A Strong Enough Connection?](https://conscious-transitions.com/what-if-we-dont-have-a-strong-enough-connection/) - [The Grass Is Always Greener Syndrome](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-grass-is-always-greener-syndrome/) - [Perfection and The Fear of Failure](https://conscious-transitions.com/perfection-and-the-fear-of-failure/) - [Dream Theme: I Cheated on My Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/dream-theme-i-cheated-on-my-partner/) - [Breathe It In](https://conscious-transitions.com/breathe-it-in/) - [The Voice That Says, "It's Not Safe"](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-voice-that-says-its-not-safe/) - ["I'm Not In Love"](https://conscious-transitions.com/im-not-in-love/) - [The Rapture of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-rapture-of-love/) - [Oh, So That's How You Love!](https://conscious-transitions.com/oh-so-thats-how-you-love/) - [Time to Get On With One's Loving](https://conscious-transitions.com/time-to-get-on-with-ones-loving/) - [Intrusive Thought: "What if I Harm a Child?" (POCD)](https://conscious-transitions.com/intrusive-thought-what-if-i-harm-a-child-pocd/) - [Every Moment of Sex](https://conscious-transitions.com/every-moment-of-sex/) - [It's Hard Being Human](https://conscious-transitions.com/its-hard-being-human/) - [Loneliness is a Part of Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/loneliness-is-a-part-of-life/) - [When Will I Feel Better?](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-will-i-feel-better/) - [Call the Witch by Its True Name](https://conscious-transitions.com/call-the-witch-by-its-true-name/) - [You Have to Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/you-have-to-love/) - [Love is Softening](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-softening/) - [Deconstructing the Family Story](https://conscious-transitions.com/deconstructing-the-family-story/) - [Two Healing Words](https://conscious-transitions.com/two-healing-words/) - [To Be Human](https://conscious-transitions.com/to-be-human/) - [Walk With Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/walk-with-love/) - [Anxiety Blocks Connection](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-blocks-connection/) - [Holiday Pain and Gratitude](https://conscious-transitions.com/holiday-pain-and-gratitude/) - [Am I Connected Enough to My Partner?](https://conscious-transitions.com/am-i-connected-enough-to-my-partner/) - [Guilt and Regret](https://conscious-transitions.com/guilt-and-regret/) - [The Life You're Meant to Live](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-life-youre-meant-to-live/) - [An Interview with a Course Member](https://conscious-transitions.com/an-interview-with-a-course-member/) - [Nature as Guide](https://conscious-transitions.com/nature-as-guide/) - [Birth Trauma and Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/birth-trauma-and-anxiety/) - [Moment By Moment](https://conscious-transitions.com/moment-by-moment/) - [Nothing Lasts Forever ](https://conscious-transitions.com/nothing-lasts-forever/) - [Nobody is Perfick](https://conscious-transitions.com/nobody-is-perfick/) - [Fear is a Friend in Disguise](https://conscious-transitions.com/fear-is-a-friend-in-disguise/) - [Grief and Joy Live in the Same Chamber of the Heart](https://conscious-transitions.com/grief-and-joy-live-in-the-same-chamber-of-the-heart/) - [10,000 Hours of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/10000-hours-of-love/) - ["I Wish He Was Funnier"](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-wish-he-was-funnier/) - [The Cycle of Healing](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-cycle-of-healing/) - [When Fear Washes In: Health Anxiety and Death Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-fear-washes-in-health-anxiety-and-death-anxiety/) - ["I Wish He Was Taller"](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-wish-he-was-taller/) - [Grief Neutralizes Thought](https://conscious-transitions.com/grief-neutralizes-thought/) - [A Tale of Two Moths, Dark Night of the Soul, and Sexuality](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-tale-of-two-moths-dark-night-of-the-soul-and-sexuality/) - [How We Love Ourselves](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-we-love-ourselves/) - [Compassion or Comparison](https://conscious-transitions.com/compassion-or-comparison/) - [The Untrained Mind](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-untrained-mind/) - [Hang On](https://conscious-transitions.com/hang-on/) - [Anxiety and Numbness](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-and-numbness/) - [Television and Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/television-and-anxiety/) - [Is My Partner Right For Me?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-my-partner-right-for-me/) - [Sleep Anxiety: Guest Post by Carrie Dinow](https://conscious-transitions.com/sleep-anxiety-guest-post-by-carrie-dinow/) - [Mentors and Guides](https://conscious-transitions.com/mentors-and-guides/) - [Turned On By Kindness](https://conscious-transitions.com/turned-on-by-kindness/) - [Love and the Fear of Flying](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-and-the-fear-of-flying/) - [Fix Me, Save Me, Help Me, Rescue Me](https://conscious-transitions.com/fix-me-save-me-help-me-rescue-me/) - [Trust Life ](https://conscious-transitions.com/trust-life/) - [Living by Your North Star](https://conscious-transitions.com/living-by-your-north-star/) - [Action Diffuses Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/action-diffuses-fear/) - [Moving... with children](https://conscious-transitions.com/moving-with-children/) - [The Faces of the Wounded Self](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-faces-of-the-wounded-self/) - [How Do You Find Your Truth?](https://conscious-transitions.com/how-do-you-find-your-truth/) - [Time to Unplug: Will You Join Me?](https://conscious-transitions.com/time-to-unplug-will-you-join-me/) - [The Stories We Tell Ourselves](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-stories-we-tell-ourselves/) - [Love is a Habit ](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-a-habit/) - [Every Living Creature](https://conscious-transitions.com/every-living-creature/) - [The Wisdom of Longing](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-wisdom-of-longing/) - [September Anxiety ](https://conscious-transitions.com/september-anxiety/) - [The Vulnerability of Loving](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-vulnerability-of-loving/) - [The Roots of Intrusive Thoughts](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-roots-of-intrusive-thoughts/) - [And Then He's Eleven](https://conscious-transitions.com/and-then-hes-eleven/) - [The Call to Turn Inward ](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-call-to-turn-inward/) - [The Uncorked Heart ](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-uncorked-heart/) - [When You're Not Attracted To Your Partner ----- Part 2](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-youre-not-attracted-to-your-partner-part-2/) - [The Joy of Loving Freely](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-joy-of-loving-freely/) - [The Antidote to Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-antidote-to-fear/) - [In Love with the Feeling of Being In Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/in-love-with-the-feeling-of-being-in-love/) - [Turn to Face Your Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/turn-to-face-your-fear/) - [Longing for Aliveness](https://conscious-transitions.com/longing-for-aliveness/) - [Watch for the Spark ](https://conscious-transitions.com/watch-for-the-spark/) - [From Anxiety to Creativity/Spirituality](https://conscious-transitions.com/from-anxiety-to-creativityspirituality/) - [Projection as Protection](https://conscious-transitions.com/projection-as-protection/) - [The Story of Matthew: Part 2 or "The Transition of Healing"](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-story-of-matthew-part-2-or-the-transition-of-healing/) - [The Myth of Normal](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-myth-of-normal/) - [Love Rests On No Foundation](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-rests-on-no-foundation/) - [Morning Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/morning-anxiety/) - [Filling The Well](https://conscious-transitions.com/filling-the-well/) - [I Feel Like I'm Lying When I Say I Love You ](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-feel-like-im-lying-when-i-say-i-love-you/) - [Parenting by the Fuel Source of Gratitude ](https://conscious-transitions.com/parenting-by-the-fuel-source-of-gratitude/) - [The Timeless Spot of Grace ](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-timeless-spot-of-grace/) - [A Passionate Life](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-passionate-life/) - [Love Cannot Be Measured ](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-cannot-be-measured/) - [Yes and No](https://conscious-transitions.com/yes-and-no/) - [The Holy Days](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-holy-days/) - [Anxiety: A Doorway to the Underworld](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-a-doorway-to-the-underworld/) - [The Grief Place](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-grief-place/) - [Anxiety is Not Your Destiny](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-is-not-your-destiny/) - [Loss of Light](https://conscious-transitions.com/loss-of-light/) - [When Fear Meets Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-fear-meets-love/) - [Anxiety is Not an Accident](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-is-not-an-accident/) - [Still Learning](https://conscious-transitions.com/still-learning/) - [It's Not What You Think](https://conscious-transitions.com/its-not-what-you-think/) - [True Beauty ](https://conscious-transitions.com/true-beauty/) - [Love is a Practice](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-a-practice/) - [Everest Turns Ten](https://conscious-transitions.com/everest-turns-ten/) - [The Escape Hatch from Anxiety](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-escape-hatch-from-anxiety/) - [The Well of Being](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-well-of-being/) - [Feelings are Manageable; Anxiety is Not ](https://conscious-transitions.com/feelings-are-manageable-anxiety-is-not/) - [Just Because You Have a Thought Doesn't Mean It's True](https://conscious-transitions.com/just-because-you-have-a-thought-doesnt-mean-its-true/) - [The Holy Day of Mother's Day](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-holy-day-of-mothers-day/) - [Addicted to Screens](https://conscious-transitions.com/addicted-to-screens/) - [Love is Not the Absence of Fear](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-not-the-absence-of-fear/) - [Dealing with Disappointment](https://conscious-transitions.com/dealing-with-disappointment/) - [So Precious It Hurts](https://conscious-transitions.com/so-precious-it-hurts/) - [Are You Stuck In Adolescent Love?](https://conscious-transitions.com/are-you-stuck-in-adolescent-love/) - [Am I Meant To Be With My Ex?](https://conscious-transitions.com/am-i-meant-to-be-with-my-ex/) - [Dear Self, I Love You](https://conscious-transitions.com/dear-self-i-love-you/) - [The Love Drug ](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-love-drug/) - [Too Close for Sex?](https://conscious-transitions.com/too-close-for-sex/) - [Why a Healthy Marriage Can Give You Wings to Fly ](https://conscious-transitions.com/why-a-healthy-marriage-can-give-you-wings-to-fly/) - [The Wall of Unshed Tears ](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-wall-of-unshed-tears/) - [Is My Partner Intellectual Enough?](https://conscious-transitions.com/is-my-partner-intellectual-enough/) - [The Boy Who Couldn't Fall Asleep](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-boy-who-couldnt-fall-asleep/) - [Birthday 42: Each Line Tells a Story](https://conscious-transitions.com/birthday-42-each-line-tells-a-story/) - [Do You Trust Yourself?](https://conscious-transitions.com/do-you-trust-yourself/) - [The Fullness of Emptiness](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fullness-of-emptiness/) - [The Anxiety of Loving: Part Two](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-anxiety-of-loving-part-two/) - [Descent Into Darkness](https://conscious-transitions.com/descent-into-darkness/) - [A Flood of Grief](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-flood-of-grief/) - [Worry and Anxiety ](https://conscious-transitions.com/worry-and-anxiety/) - [The End of Summer](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-end-of-summer/) - [Like Water For Chocolate](https://conscious-transitions.com/like-water-for-chocolate/) - [Love is But a Dream](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-but-a-dream/) - [Love Is Action](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-action/) - [My Boy Turns Nine](https://conscious-transitions.com/my-boy-turns-nine/) - [If it's Conditional it's Not Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/if-its-conditional-its-not-love/) - [Anxiety and Emptiness](https://conscious-transitions.com/anxiety-and-emptiness/) - [When You're Still Not Attracted To Your Partner](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-youre-still-not-attracted-to-your-partner/) - [A Watertight Marriage](https://conscious-transitions.com/a-watertight-marriage/) - [The Fear of Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-fear-of-love/) - [The Storm of Grief](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-storm-of-grief/) - [Love is a Skill](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-a-skill/) - [When Love is Longing](https://conscious-transitions.com/when-love-is-longing/) - [Love is a Garden](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-a-garden/) - [So Much Love](https://conscious-transitions.com/so-much-love/) - [Asher Turns Four](https://conscious-transitions.com/asher-turns-four/) - [I Love You Because I Love You](https://conscious-transitions.com/i-love-you-because-i-love-you/) - [Were You Bullied or Teased?](https://conscious-transitions.com/were-you-bullied-or-teased/) - [I'm Sorry; It's Not You](https://conscious-transitions.com/im-sorry-its-not-you/) - [Delete Your Facebook Account: A Revolutionary Act](https://conscious-transitions.com/delete-your-facebook-account-a-revolutionary-act/) - [Love Is Everywhere](https://conscious-transitions.com/love-is-everywhere/) - [Man Prayer](https://conscious-transitions.com/man-prayer/) - [February: Listen for the Seed](https://conscious-transitions.com/february-listen-for-the-seed/) - [Let's Talk About Sex](https://conscious-transitions.com/lets-talk-about-sex/) - [Broken Heart](https://conscious-transitions.com/broken-heart/) - [Winter Blues, Winter Light](https://conscious-transitions.com/winter-blues-winter-light/) - [The Power of Gratitude](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-power-of-gratitude/) - [Birthday 41: Walking Toward Midlife](https://conscious-transitions.com/birthday-41-walking-toward-midlife/) - [The Secret to a Peaceful Life (or The Fear of Death)](https://conscious-transitions.com/the-secret-to-a-peaceful-life-or-the-fear-of-death/) - [Autumn: The Season of Letting Go](https://conscious-transitions.com/autumn-the-season-of-letting-go-2/) - [Dance It Free](https://conscious-transitions.com/dance-it-free/) - [Your Essential Goodness](https://conscious-transitions.com/your-essential-goodness/) - 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