by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Aug 27, 2012 | Anxiety, Conscious Weddings Message Board Posts, Getting Married Collections, Relationships, Wedding/marriage transition |
Another inspiring post from a member of the E-Course Forum. I’m reprinting it here with grateful permission from the author. *** On the one year anniversary of getting engaged to M, I just wanted to drop back in and share some perspective that I’ve gained...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Aug 12, 2012 | Anxiety, Relationships, Wedding/marriage transition |
“Physical attraction is not a firm foundation on which to build a relationship, for the simple reason that it is never constant. It sets in motion a cycle of expectation and disillusionment that can go on and on. The person who lives in a world of fantasy will...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Aug 2, 2012 | Anxiety, Wedding/marriage transition |
Originally published in the Huffington Post. *** One of the most common questions I’m asked in my counseling practice is something along these lines: My fiancé and I have a great relationship, but after he proposed my sex drive plummeted. Is this normal? I...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Mar 19, 2012 | Anxiety, Conscious Weddings Message Board Posts, Lack of Attraction Collection, Wedding/marriage transition |
Please Note: If you would like to learn how to feel more love and attraction for your partner, check out my program called “Open Your Heart: A 30 day program to feel more love and attraction for your partner.” And for an in-depth exploration of this topic...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Feb 13, 2012 | Wedding/marriage transition |
What’s your idea of romance? If you live in the West, you probably think of romance as a feeling of being “in love.” You think of red roses adorning white tablecloths, fine wine in crystal glasses, long evenings of staring into each other’s...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Feb 5, 2012 | Wedding/marriage transition |
A member of the Conscious Weddings E-Course forum shared a link to this video and it’s so right on I just have to share it...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jan 16, 2012 | Anxiety, Transitions - General, Wedding/marriage transition |
People find me because they’re in the throes of anxiety, and quite often the anxiety centers around their intimate relationship. They’re taken down by a series of questions that cause them to fear whether or not they’re in the “right”...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Oct 4, 2011 | Relationship Anxiety Collection, Transitions - General |
The power of fear never ceases to amaze me. When I initially entered the fear forest after my first panic attack at age 21 (three months before graduating from college), I prostrated myself at fear’s feet. I handed over my thought processes and became a complete...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Aug 30, 2011 | Getting Married Collections, Wedding/marriage transition |
Fear’s entire mission in life is to keep you safe from the risk of loving. It sees love as a dangerous cesspool where the invisible sea creatures lurk beneath the dark surface, waiting to snatch you into their murky waters. Fear believes that if you risk your...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jan 17, 2011 | Divorce/Calling it Off/Break Up, Rituals and Symbols, Wedding/marriage transition |
Living with kids close to nature and on a creek, I find that my fear-mind has many opportunities to reveal itself. In spring, when the creek swells to river stature and rushes in white-lipped rapids, I worry that one of my kids will somehow escape through the gate...
