by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jun 25, 2012 | Wedding/marriage transition |
“Sanskrit has ninety-six words for love; ancient Persian has eighty, Greek three, and English only one. This is indicative of the poverty of awareness or emphasis that we give to that tremendously important realm of feeling. Eskimos have thirty words for snow, because... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | May 21, 2012 | Anxiety, Wedding/marriage transition |
Through working with clients who grew up in fairly healthy environments, it’s become increasingly clear to me that the blueprints of beliefs and experiences we absorb about love are not only connected to how we were directly treated by our parents, but also by... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Mar 19, 2012 | Anxiety, Conscious Weddings Message Board Posts, Lack of Attraction Collection, Wedding/marriage transition |
Please Note: If you would like to learn how to feel more love and attraction for your partner, check out my program called “Open Your Heart: A 30 day program to feel more love and attraction for your partner.” And for an in-depth exploration of this topic... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Nov 23, 2011 | Anxiety, Divorce/Calling it Off/Break Up, Wedding/marriage transition |
I don’t recall how I first stumbled upon Recipes for a Perfect Marriage by Morag Prunty, but most likely it came from a recommendation from a member of the e-course message board. I remember intially feeling put-off by the title as anything that contains the... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Feb 14, 2011 | Holidays/Holy Days/Seasons |
Sometimes it’s in plain view And sometimes it’s hidden Sometimes it’s inarguable And sometimes it’s mysterious But if you open your eyes, you will see love everywhere. It’s in the air we breathe. It’s in the miracles of our bodies.... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jan 20, 2011 | Wedding/marriage transition |
A few weeks ago had a great session with the man I’ve referred to as “Matthew” in these posts. We’ve been working together for quite some time and have uncovered layer upon layer of false beliefs that are contributing to his unhappiness. But in... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Dec 13, 2010 | Alanis Morissette, Wedding/marriage transition |
Lesson Three of the Conscious Weddings E-Course is “What If I Don’t Love My Partner Enough?” or “Real Love versus Infatuation”. I’ll say it bluntly: Our culture is dangerously deluded when it comes to ideas of real love. From the... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Nov 18, 2010 | Wedding/marriage transition |
The topic of projection arises frequently on this blog and in my counseling work with clients struggling through the wedding transition. The truth is that any time you’re in a intimate relationship with a real person (as opposed to infatuated with someone... by Sheryl Lisa Finn | May 11, 2010 | Transitions - General, Wedding/marriage transition |
If you’ve grown up in Western culture, you’ve been inundated from the time you were born with images and beliefs about love. Most, if not all, of these images are predicated on the archaic paradigm of Romantic Love. Romantic love is not real love. Romantic love is,...