by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jun 28, 2026 | Relationships |
When my husband and I started watching The Four Seasons television series, we laughed at the following scene between husband and wife Jack and Kate where Jack is making a toast to their friends who have been married for 25 years. Jack: It is rare in this life to find...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jun 21, 2026 | Relationships |
We’re living in a time when paradigms and systems are being exploded. We finally understand that there are many ways to love and be in a body and identify oneself. And, as deeply entrenched mindsets shatter, the pendulum of cultural discourse often swings...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Apr 19, 2026 | Mother Wound |
One of the basic precepts of both psychological and spiritual work is that in order to experience healthy union we must first experience separation. Just as we had to be expelled from the mythic Garden of Eden to know ourselves as separate from the divine before...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Mar 29, 2026 | Relationships |
One of the aspects of psychology I love most is that there are endless layers to explore about every topic. Because psychology is a relatively new field, there’s still a lot we don’t know. And because the mind and soul are as vast as the universe, there...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Feb 15, 2026 | Relationships |
In last week’s blog post I explored the question of “What is ‘Enough’ in Romantic Love?” One reader commented: “The friendship conversation always triggers me. I can’t tell if I truly don’t like him, or if I’m seeing him through...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Feb 8, 2026 | Relationships |
At the core of relationship anxiety is the doubt about enough: • Is my partner attractive enough? • Am I in love enough? • Do we have enough intellectual stimulation? • Is there enough emotional connection? • Are they social enough? As I’ve stated in many blog posts,...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Jan 11, 2026 | Sexuality |
I want to share a little-known secret with you, one that you would never surmise if you derived the majority of your sex education from pop culture: There’s more to sex than orgasms. Shocking, I know. This statement flies in the face of the hierarchal model of...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Dec 14, 2025 | Anxiety |
We come from oneness and we return to oneness. Our time in between is defined by separation. For highly sensitive people, this separation is our kryptonite – the thing that makes us feel most vulnerable in the world – and we often become aware of it very...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Dec 7, 2025 | Anxiety |
There are moments and seasons for every human when the pain and uncertainty of life feel too terrible to bear. An unexpected bill arrives and anxiety lurches your stomach. Too many bills. Sinking into the sea of overwhelm. Too much anxiety. A world informed by...
by Sheryl Lisa Finn | Oct 26, 2025 | Open Your Heart |
Most of us are wired for negativity. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, for it’s the wiring to notice what’s wrong, missing, or askew that has kept our human race alive for thousands of years. As I’ve shared many times, highly sensitive people...
