Break Free From
Relationship Anxiety Assessment

Is my doubt about my relationship an offshoot of my own anxiety or is it a warning that I’m with the wrong person?

To help you answer this question, I’ve created a brief assessment. Please click the link below to fill it out, then click the RESULTS link at the bottom of the quiz to receive more clarity.

Over the years, I’ve received thousands of emails from people who were consumed with this question. How can you tell? Don’t we learn that “doubt means don’t?” Isn’t that what your mother or best friends are telling you — that if you’re experiencing this much doubt in your relationship it’s a clear sign that you’re with the wrong person? How do you know if you’re “in love,” especially if you’ve never had those infatuation feelings to begin with?

It’s the million-dollar question, the one that causes endless Google searches, endless hours of rumination, endless hours of self-inflicted torture. Your mind tells you that if you could just answer this one question, you would be free of your anxiety and you could make a decision either to commit fully or to walk away.

I’ll give it to you straight and simple: the fact that you’re here, on my site, on this particular page, trying to answer this particular question, is near-certain evidence that you’re suffering from relationship anxiety as opposed to evidence that you’re with the wrong person. (Is your mind now clinging to the phrase “near-certain”? Ah, the ego demands certainty! Another sign that you’re in the right place.)

But there’s so much more I’d love to share with you, and it starts by taking the relationship anxiety assessment. Here’s the link again: